Hey, I'm a woman and it keeps me wonder why guys are afraid of virgins. A guy I met on line wanted to get intimate with me, but he backed off simply because I'm a virgin!!! He told me it's too much a responsibility to get intimate with a virgin!!! I don't get it, so I'd like to ask people, guys and women, for your opinion on this. Thanks a lot for sharing.
2006-10-13 20:31:15 · 21 answers · asked by CRT 3 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
virgins are the BEST!!!, stay pure, don't give it to just anyone!!
2006-10-13 20:33:48 · answer #1 · answered by moon420 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Virgins are usually very tight-fitting. The guy will almost never satisfy you the first time. You will feel too good to him to last long enough for you to get off. He's afraid to not satisfy you. Afraid to disappoint you. It's alot of pressure to be the first. Give him many chances to try if you really care. Otherwise wait for someone else.
2006-10-13 20:45:13 · answer #2 · answered by nordinanoka 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the guy. Some of them are turned off by that because sometimes when a girl loses her virginity she bleeds, and also they have to be more careful and patient when making love to a virgin. Others however savor the idea of taking a virgin's virginity. It really depends on the guy
2006-10-13 20:34:22 · answer #3 · answered by LalaLola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys are like this.
But this individual could be due to many reasons such as:
* scared off because of the pressure to perform as he will always be remembered.
* Doesnt want to use you and dump you
* Thinks you should be with a virgin for the first time
* Doesnt want to work for it
* Fear of committment
2006-10-13 21:09:45 · answer #4 · answered by Mike J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guys you speak of are probably afraid that you'll become very attached to them after having sex, or at least more attached to them than they would like. There's also guys who seek out virgins, but those guys are douche-bags. Just have sex with someone who you have a real thing with and it shouldn't be a problem.
2006-10-13 20:35:01 · answer #5 · answered by Prince J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like someone said above, it depends on the guy. A lot of guys would rather not be intimate with a virgin because they see it as too much work. They would rather have someone more experienced sexually than to have to go through the process of "teaching" someone how to have sex. Sex is supposed to be enjoyable and having sex with a virgin means you have to go through that painful first time which makes both of you uncomfortable and makes it very unenjoyable.
2006-10-13 20:41:30 · answer #6 · answered by trafficjams 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I have a few guy friends and this is what we come up with. As much as it would be a notch on our bedpost it can also mean you (the virgin) will get stuck (emotionally) to us. Everybody remembers their first time so we don't want to be stuck in your memory forever, specially a memory that isnt always too pleasant.
2006-10-13 20:36:24 · answer #7 · answered by sketcher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think he was afraid he just wanted a freak that already knows what they are doing. Where you going to give up your virginity to a guy you met online?
2006-10-13 20:35:25 · answer #8 · answered by LovePotion 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
heres the answer.
this one man said something stupid. how does that make every man afraid of virgins. the reason this guy was probably scared was because he was online! if you meet guys in the real world then they aren't like that. infact i would rather have sex with a virgin!! just because this one man says something it doesnt mean everyone else feels the same way.
hope this helps
&hearts bruno
2006-10-13 20:36:19 · answer #9 · answered by peaceful bloodshed 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm not afraid of no virgin! But some guys are cuz they think that they'll end breaking her heart - and who wants to be under that cloud?
2006-10-13 20:49:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am not afraid of virgins ..love of the ideal of me being the first and teaching the great art of sex...love to meet you..my email is long_hard_thick9@yahoo.com
2006-10-13 20:49:22 · answer #11 · answered by long_hard_thick9 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋