i made love to my boyfriend and since its something that we had not prepared for, i took the morning after pill but i did not get my periods. after 3 weeks i went for a pregnancy test which turned out positive. am now 2 months pregnant. when i told my boyfie about it he asked me to abort coz he was planning to go back to his lady whom they had separated, he already has a kid with her. i feel disappointed for having loved him.now my problems are i dont know whether its safe to keep the baby after taking the pill and also am afraid of my parents getting to know that am carrying a baby without a father.the pregnancy will also affect my job which has been my only way of survival. i feel innocent and cheated. am feeling so down!! kindly help
2006-10-13 19:49:32 · 8 answers · asked by helpme! 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
If you decide to keep this unborn child do it because YOU wanted to, not b/c you hope that he would come around more often, as for your parents hopefully they would assist you in raising this child. Depending on your age, and status in life it can be harder. As for the father of your child, only time will tell, but if i were you I wouldnt wait and stick around for him 2 want me just as much as he want her, he already had it in his mind that he wants to be with her, and the only thing that you can do is move on, and hopefully this experience will make you a stronger person.
2006-10-13 20:03:18 · answer #1 · answered by Breann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U can't live your life for everyone else. Yeah it will be nice 2 have a picture perfect pregnancy and life for your child. But sometimes things don't turn out like that. AND IT MIGHT BE HARD BUT LET HIM GO. Its sad 2 men 2 lead us on.
And the baby will be ok if you took the pill. It's obvious that if u tried once to get rid of the baby and it didn't work then its meant for u to keep it.
Every job has maternity leave so don't worry about that and if they don't you can get unemployment. But at the end of the day its your choice.
2006-10-14 03:10:51 · answer #2 · answered by naynay562000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep the baby! i have a friend who took x-rays 3 times not knowing that she's pregnant... she was also afraid that her parents won't accept her. she's just 19 yrs old then.. now the baby's 5 months old and he's very cute.. he's ok..
you should not abort the baby... in the first place, you are aware of the consequences.. you must face your problems! a mistake will not be corrected by another mistake.. its a mortal sin.. imagine what would your child feel. he's innocent! don't make him carry the burdens... of your own fault! be proud for that baby! i assure you that when he's all grown up, he'll be proud of u for bringing him in this world
2006-10-14 04:53:44 · answer #3 · answered by Samantha 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The emergency contracenption will not harm a growing fetus. It is only designed to prevent the egg from implanting into the uterine lining. Something must have gone wrong, did you take the pill past the first 5 days after sex?
Maybe try adoption?
2006-10-14 03:32:28 · answer #4 · answered by Fire 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First find out if the baby's healthy.... don't throw away an innocent cause of a dumbass. Hes probably scared, and when the baby comes I'm sure he'll be right there... gl
2006-10-14 03:30:23 · answer #5 · answered by soleilmoon_2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a risk to continue a pregnancy after taking the morning after pill
2006-10-14 03:01:32 · answer #6 · answered by dumplingmuffin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep the baby and tax his *** for child support that's what i did!
2006-10-14 03:03:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that sucks, I feel bad for you
2006-10-14 02:58:43 · answer #8 · answered by Dr Dee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋