Your daughter is only 14 years old, a first-placer in her batch, and an only child.
2006-10-13 19:45:44 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
There's really not much you can do except know that you taught her the right things and now it's time to trust her judgement.
2006-10-13 19:48:58 · answer #1 · answered by starrynight1 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First placer in her batch?
Well, if my 14 yr old had a boyfriend, I would make sure he was in close proximity to her age, and discuss the importance of respecting her body and waiting til SHE is ready, not to just keep him around.
Then I would take her in to get her put on the pill.. not the Depo because that could cause issues for her later when she is ready to start a family. If you think possibly she would be irresponsible to take the pill, perhaps using the 28 day vaginal insert called the Nuva ring might be a better option. If she is flaky on using an insert then maybe she shouldn't have a boyfriend. :)
Good luck!!
2006-10-13 19:58:33 · answer #2 · answered by Fire 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to her about it in detail to see where she is mentally, and make sure that you meet her boyfriend and feel him out, also monitor their activities because they are both still relatively young and this is a age for experimenting. Trusting a 14 yr old may be difficult in a world and time like this, even if she has a good head on her shoulders, she is still incapable of making the wisest decisions
2006-10-13 20:10:34 · answer #3 · answered by Breann 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make sure that the kid was nice, and treates her with respect. As long as they aren't drinking, or having sex I'd be fine with it. Anything beyond second base that I find out about would result in a long talk, and 2 weeks punishment.
2006-10-13 20:14:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's fine to have a boyfriend at 14, nothing wrong with that.
2006-10-14 03:02:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
congratulate her and talk to her not to make a mistake, young people need intimacy to know themselves better, she really needs you. If you act open then probably she will too
2006-10-14 01:24:37 · answer #6 · answered by lateine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
she's growing up...give her some freedom but don't put a leash on her, and it's time for a good mom-daughter talk
2006-10-13 22:17:49 · answer #7 · answered by KingRichard 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, find out stealthily about how is the boy like. if he is good then pretty well and if not, then try separating them.
2006-10-14 00:49:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beat her, Change schools, change phone number, disband friendship network, band phone privileges. Repeat as necessary
2006-10-13 20:32:56 · answer #9 · answered by Jason T 3 · 0⤊ 6⤋
let her have a boyfriend......thats totally normal!!
2006-10-14 02:29:27 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋