Kissing, petting etc are not what matured or sensible boys/men are looking, all this counts in those teenage days with raging hormones where one has no respect or sentiments for the partner. A mature male today would (and should) love his girl to have the following traits:
1. Charm - is what draws men to those women who are not as good-looking as the others in our black book. Charm is what pulls us back to women even after they burn us. Charm is the one thing that lets women get away with murder - okay, charm and the next thing on the list.
2. Respect - The last thing a man wants is a woman who lets us down, embarrasses us and makes us out to be fools, especially in public. Gentlemen, there is nothing wrong with admitting that we are excessively proud and sensitive to criticism, but if done right, constructive criticism from the one person who knows us best can only make us better men, fathers, lovers, brothers and human beings.
3. Sense of humor - This will forever remain a priority for any man. We work hard, we put up with a lot, and we need a woman who will put a smile on our faces when things are gloomy, and make us laugh when things are down. I have been curious as to whether we like it when women make us laugh or when we make them laugh. Being able to make them laugh is good for our egos, but getting a smile on our faces is the best tonic possible. Women always rank a sense of humor as the trait they like most in us. A woman who finds it challenging to smile and be pleasant will be a thorn in your side until the day you die, and trust me, your judgment day will come before hers.
4. Intelligence & Confidence - Previous generations probably preferred a smart woman - not just book smart, but also street smart. But truth be told - and this will not please feminists (but then again, who cares?) - many men did not want an overly smart woman, after all, it would be too hard to tame and control her. After all, men feared that women could become unstable and make demands (oh no...). Today, men have matured a bit and now see the value in having a valuable ally as a partner. If a housewife, mother and maid is all that you are looking for, you are selling yourself short men, so go out and find someone who will learn from you as much as you will learn from her; imagine the powerhouse couple that you will make.
5. Heart of gold - Most women are selfish on good days and plain malicious on bad ones, so why any man would let himself get tempted (well, we know why) by someone who has bad intentions beats me. If you are looking to get involved for the long haul, a kind woman with a heart of gold will nurture you and offer the compassion, sincerity, warmth, and affection you need to make it to the top. Just make sure you are able to reciprocate the kindness, because someone ultimately will and then she'll run for the hills.
6. Honesty & Trust - When the games are played, final rounds called and booty calls over, we want someone we can confide in. The most successful relationships are built upon trust, candor and honesty; anything else is equivalent to building a house on quicksand. Sadly, you only know who is swimming naked when the tide goes down.
7. Love - Although there are different things that make men happy - some of them may not have been on the list but should have been, while others are but should not have been - when all is said and done and the ink has dried up, the first dates turn into the honeymoon stage, and the relationship develops, all men really want is love.
Good Luck>
2006-10-13 20:50:29
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answered by Rahul 6
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Don't worry girl!! I still have friends who have never been kissed and they're 17 and 18! I know I'm glad I waited till it was someone I KNEW I liked a lot. My first kiss was nice, cause even though it was at school, i knew I liked him. So be patient and when you know you really like the guy that finally comes along, and you two have known each other for some time-it'll be perfect no matter where!
2016-05-22 00:33:43
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answered by ? 4
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Being a boy/man I like to be kissed all over - no specific part as each and every part is part of my body. I love the girl who gives herself completely - mind, soul and body for me - not often possible for modern girls; Being her own self and making me feel that she cares and loves every thing of me makes me feel that I am really being loved. But it is not difficult to find out for the girl if a boy really loves her or not - it not always true vice-versa!!
2006-10-13 20:09:36
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answered by jk s 2
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Try kissing on his neck, under his ears. Or, if you're more intimate, kiss him on the inside of his thighs. And...the best place is the lips!
As for the love, just show him by your actions in general. If you're ready to share yourself physically with him, ask him what he likes. He'll be impressed that you asked.
2006-10-13 19:32:56
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answered by flip4it 4
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Kisses behind the ears and on the eyelids, I think. Sweetly seductive and loving.
2006-10-13 19:35:47
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answered by Anonymous
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Behind the ear, the nipples, the private parts.
Show TLC. Make him feel special. Be lovey-dovey but do not go beyond his limitations. Be thoughtful as in remember his birthday, etc.
(As for my answer, don't be shocked because, hey, you asked.)
2006-10-13 19:34:57
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answered by Anonymous
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Sex is part of love, but sex does NOT create love.
Make sure you are mature enough to have your priorities straight!
2006-10-13 19:33:33
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answered by backinbowl 6
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lips, offer him to kiss lips to lips.
2006-10-13 19:38:48
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answered by narendra 1
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