i stopped talk to her lol u??
2006-10-13 19:26:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
that depends on the person... all i do is tell them that we can only be friends... some people accept defeat gracefully so those who do remained my friends while those who don't get snobbed (no use wasting time to those kind of people)
2006-10-13 19:30:38 · answer #1 · answered by sen 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sure...most of us have had someone of the opposite sex express interest in us that we did not want to return....but honesty is what I recommend in this situation. Being honest is a way of showing respect in my view. It's flattering to know someone 'digs us' --isn't it? But the quickest way to turn a 'potential friend' into a 'foe" is to mislead, and let them humiliate or embarrass themselves by continuing the 'chase' or 'pursuit'--and who has an ego so big that calls for allowing someone to do just that. Others can handle us being straightforward....we only convince ourselves that the 'interested party' will fall apart if we play it straight. Do you respect this person, hold a grudge and desire to wait until they see you out with that other (drop dead gorgeous date) person until they have a clue, or what. Face it...you're the one caught up here....save face yourself....give some brief explaination why they fall into the 'inappropriate category', and maintain some dignity. What goes around comes around.
2006-10-14 02:42:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with them. Cut if off early. Don't take advantage of the situation.
2006-10-14 02:29:35 · answer #3 · answered by Onjel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoiding them usually works well. Good Luck
2006-10-14 02:27:54 · answer #4 · answered by Wood77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Igore them and hide, the normal ones usually get the hint.
2006-10-14 02:29:21 · answer #5 · answered by Cortney B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be honest so that person isn't in the dark. Maybe you'll find a friend. In the end, only kindness matters! :)
2006-10-14 02:28:11 · answer #6 · answered by heather h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
was nice but not flirty in the slightest way, asked me out, told him that i would be happy to meet him somewhere, but only as friends and made sure he knew that. We laugh about it now...
2006-10-14 02:28:22 · answer #7 · answered by askalicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would start by saying that youre flattered but then, just say he/she is not your style or you "dont feel any chemistry going on."
2006-10-14 02:39:05 · answer #8 · answered by rokdude5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u should NOT do like tht.ITS OBVIOUS MAN UR BEING NASTY....if u dont like her u can tell her straight at her face it may hurt her but the truth is better by being two faced ...
2006-10-14 02:29:48 · answer #9 · answered by ~electra~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just tell them i tell them that i do not like them in that way lets just stay friends.
2006-10-14 02:29:42 · answer #10 · answered by knowssignlanguage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋