i made love to my boyfriend and since its something that we had not prepared for, i took the morning after pill but i did not get my periods. after 3 weeks i went for a pregnancy test which turned out positive. am now 2 months pregnant. i feel like aborting. what would u advice? and is it safe to keep the baby. kindly help
2006-10-13 19:09:41 · 10 answers · asked by helpme! 1 in Health ➔ Women's Health
I would talk to you doctor before making any decisions. He will do some tests and tell you what he knows. Good luck. God bless. Don't abort, if you don't want the baby, there are lots of loving couples that would take it for you.
2006-10-13 19:15:01 · answer #1 · answered by nevada nomad 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi..go to the doctor and ask if it's safe to keep the baby, I imagine that it is. Then try talking to a counsellor before you make any decisions. Have you told your boyfriend yet? If you don't want the baby then you could always give him/her up for adoption, there are so so many people who can't have children and would love to adopt. Whatever you do take your time and think about it, it's a very important decision to make whatever you choose to do, and one that should be given alot of thought. I know it's scary at first to find out that you're pregnant in these circumstances, I've been there..I was 19 and my daughter is now almost 9, she's the greatest.
Best of Luck
2006-10-14 02:23:51 · answer #2 · answered by Moon 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, things happen. If you took the morning after pill you shouldn't be pregnant. does your physician know that you took the pill and you are still pregnant. There could be something wrong with the fetus from taking that. I am not even sure if you can still abort. Either way, things happen for a reason and if you are already two months alone you should keep it. There's a reason why you've waited and why you are asking. You are confused and thats normal. It's a decision that you have to make yourself, after all you are the one who has to live with it. My best wishes and congratulations.
2006-10-14 02:15:16 · answer #3 · answered by amandaped25 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My advice is to talk to your doctor and see if there is any harm to the fetus. This is a very serious decision. I personally would not be able to abort and if I was in an unplanned unwanted pregnancy I would choose to adopt my child out to a loving couple.
2006-10-14 02:15:12 · answer #4 · answered by Proud to be an American 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in my opinion abortion is ok in matters like this i mean it depends on how old are u n if ur ready to have a baby .....if ur not i mean why bring a poor child into the world n let it suffer with a bad life ...abortion is ok in this matter because the baby is not really aware of n e thing yet
2006-10-14 02:17:54 · answer #5 · answered by sindy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why would you want to abort YOUR BABY!!! You should have prepared for sex first....that baby didn't ask for you to be its mother or your boyfriend to be its father.....you need to think about that before you kill your child!!
2006-10-14 02:14:41 · answer #6 · answered by ?rukkaloca24? 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its your body. you can do whatever you want to it. do take into consideration that there are people out there willing to adopt the baby if you chose not to abort. think carefully, and be sure to do what YOU think is best for you.
hang in there.
2006-10-14 20:51:39 · answer #7 · answered by laurel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have the baby then give it to an adoption agency. Im sure theres someone wanting a child.
2006-10-14 02:13:34 · answer #8 · answered by justinbowen2003 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some places abortion is illegal. have the courage to keep the baby for yourself. Ask him (the father) to marry you asap.
2006-10-14 04:02:36 · answer #9 · answered by Gopal 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have an abortion. An unwanted child will ruin your life and the child's life as well. You only have one.
2006-10-14 02:14:42 · answer #10 · answered by weezzze 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋