my friends say i am spiled cause i have a good husband who buys me gifts and takes me places but they dont realize if i am spoiled so is he i run his bath shave him fix his plate in 28 yrs of marriage he has never opened a draw for sock underwear ect ect and not find them there all cleaned and folded i iron all his shirts and paints so why am i spoiled and he isnt ?
2006-10-13 19:09:24 · 11 answers · asked by Msdeb gee 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
your friends must be lame, lonely or have sum screwed up marriages/relationships..tell them stop drinking that hatorade! blessings darling! 28 years u go woman!
2006-10-13 19:15:52 · answer #1 · answered by thatswhoIam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, I dont know what makes a person spoiled.
But, I can say at least this much that neither you nor your husband are spoiled.
Rather , I have a feelings that your friends are not your true friends. I am sure they are not as happy as you in their family. I
am sure they are very much jealous.
Pray to Almighty, so that you are receving His blessing all the time.
2006-10-14 02:52:37 · answer #2 · answered by Saint 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're calling you spoiled because you probably have a better relationship with your husband than they do with theirs, and he shows his love for you in ways they can see. They are jealous. Congratulations on a long and lovely marriage :-)
2006-10-14 02:12:42 · answer #3 · answered by SLWrites 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds good to me. I spoiled my ex so bad that she somehow used that as part of the reason for our breakup. Said she got bored because I always took care of her and it made her feel unneeded.
2006-10-14 02:18:59 · answer #4 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, don't they wish they had a marriage like yours? Your friends are cetainly entitled to their opinion but as long as u and your spouse are happy doing things for each other, I don't see how that's anyone else's business but yours.
2006-10-14 02:25:55 · answer #5 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey.. it is always good to have someone who spolis you... you both spoil and pamper each other thats the fun in a relationship and it let the sparks fly....
Next time if they say something.. you say you love being spoilt by your HUBBY.... thats what marriage is, spoiling each other with love, care n concern......
be happy always.....
2006-10-14 02:21:43 · answer #6 · answered by hi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're not spoilt you are blessed. I don't think they mean it badly I think they are just giving you a little bit of a hard time. That is just what friends do. Be grateful that you have friends. I can count our true friends on one hand.
2006-10-14 02:29:39 · answer #7 · answered by oldmomma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have a good marriage to me. Count your blessings and tell your friends to piss off.
2006-10-14 02:11:05 · answer #8 · answered by munkees81 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think someone that is spoiled is someone with lots of money always wanting things from others that arent as well off as them. and also someone who thinks they should have everyone done for them hand and foot.
2006-10-14 05:30:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you and your husband have a good thing going. spoil each other while you can .
2006-10-14 02:23:12 · answer #10 · answered by tia c 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋