what will you do if you have an annoying co-worker?

Question

You just dislike his presence he's noisy He talks so loud
He even singing when he's suppose to be quiet in work station
He talks a lot and doesn't care about other people's feelings but he's own the good thing he transfer to the morning shift but he still hang- out at night! He comes in and out of the office as if he owns the place As if he's going to die if he couldn't sing loudly or speak loudly he has a microphone but still speak as if he doen't have Even when far from he's work Station you can still hear his loud annoying voice I already ask him if he could modulate his voice (3 times) Guess he totally ignore me he says I butt-in when they're talking as if he doesn't do that either He also butt-in especially when other people talking and he wants to let people know he's so great! He let's everybody know he knows a lot of things and knows different languages, I don't want to report it because I don't want problems.

Sigh
Sigh
Sigh

No way I'm going to sleep with a guy who cries more than a girl, one time we were all suprised when he cried after talking to the phone, gesh! even he's personal problems he brings to the office

Nope
not this guy
he's one guy not easy to deal with
He doesn't want to lose

yuck! have crush on him
why would i be jealous of a guy
who can't been pronounce circumstances right. instead of saying "cir-***-stan-ces" he say it like "cir-cums-tances" and he keep saying "me and my brother" instead of saying " my brother and I"

I mean can't even pronounce

ok the crazy yahoo answer thinks I'm saying a bad word by replacing C-U-M with *** from the word circumstances

who wouldn't notice him
Like I said he's loud!

Answer 1

First know that he is a bully in disguise and you are getting bullied, so take responsibility of your responses thereafter you shall no longer feel like a victim at all times.

Try humour and irreverence back at him, e.g. Put notices all over or run a signature campaign recommending him for the Grammies next year. Present him with Mr. Modesty or The Humblest Soul award at your next office party.

Also make sure you don't get hassled too much by him he is just a sad little guy looking for some attention though don’t encourage the addict his drug, take him to a de-addiction centre or a rehab - a rehab for attention when he has to give himself the attention he seeks the most in life. And if you are getting hassle understand that he is only trying show you a path way for growth and empowerment use this opportunity to grow as person and not end up feeling like a victim all over again.

Ask yourself this - Did you ever had to face bullies in your early life? School, childhood, at home or in college, if yes, then use this opportunity to get past your vicious cycle now. Stand up for yourself now, though not as a child but as an adult, calmly and assertively.

Affirm your inner power and you won’t have face another bully in life, ask your self where in life am I compromising that power which the bully is picking, bullies are very good at picking up vulnerable characters in the crowd, know that you are the magnet in your life, so when you change the magnet – there you are!

And know that each time you get mad at bully you are simply making them more powerful by telling them that they have the power to ruffle your feathers, Like it or not, you are unknowingly giving away all your power to him.

Any one who manages to ruffle us takes away our power, like it or not.

DON’T FIGHT, GET EMPOWERED, that is become calm yet assertiveness in your life’s dealing and that would reflect back at you, an angry warrior gets often tired and hurt. Get connected with your inner power and that comes from within, when you start believing that you are worthy for all the respect for your self and your personal space, you will no longer get to face a bully in life- again.

Take away the power from bullies - stay centered in your Self.

Answer 2

The plus points....
He does not actually prevent your performance, physically harm, or block the freedom of movement, he does not destroy, or spoil your productivity... if these were happening, the boss knows what to do !
It is just that he catches your attention too much... what ever he does. Well, honestly, is not something possible , from just within you ! Is it not a challenge to enhance the abilities to focus better ?! There was some occasion when deeply absorbed in an interesting story, fiction, novel, book, comic etc where nothing around seemed an interruption... even the crowded railway platform, with the hooting of train's whistle !
The work is yet to sufficiently involve you... perhaps.... not really needed if it is a routine, dull, repetitive work, but if the attitude towards work can be reconsidered, it may help in involving you better... The noisy person seems obviously cheerful at work. The more you try to avoid him, the more he stays in your mind. Instead, just try to thank the bosses, that you are not a loner amidst just noisy machines in the work place ! Some human who is not a machine-like, is there to entertain, 'officially' with non-official mannerisms ! You may end up becoming very friendly with him, and look for his performances if he re-appears after a brief leave period !

Answer 3

Tell him to just STFU. As a very last resort you could consider to sleep with him and if that doesn't shut him up, just make up a story what a lousy F he was.

Though as long as you can solve it in a polite and civilized way, find the options there. If that doesn't work gather little bits of information on him and find plausible ways to blow those way out of proportion. Sometimes you will have to fight fire with fire.

Best of luck to you, let's hope in this case you'll make it all the way to heaven.

Answer 4

It sounds like you have a crush on him. Or are you jealous of his knowledge?
Go to manager and make them aware of the situation. Maybe the can move you further away from him, or at least start watching him in the evenings. They could easily ask him to leave. This way you have some documentation on the problem.

I'm still thinking you have the hots for him.....

Thanks for the two points.

Answer 5

I would use him as a mirror to see why his conduct affects me.IF i see defect in someone,i have learned that if it annoys me then i have some aspect of the same defect. IF i correct my defect ,his conduct will no longer bother me. IF I TRY TO CORRECT HIS DEFECT,THEN I HAVE STEPPED THROUGH ALICE'S LOOKING GLASS INTO A WONDERLAND. IF i wish to correct the image in my mirror,i don't scratch the mirror.

Answer 6

Well, at least he's a guy. In my opinion, guys are much easier to deal with and talk to than female co-workers. Female co-workers give you more drama.

Answer 7

maybe take him/her to the side and tell him/her what he/she is doing maybe they do not realize what they are doing. Then if they do not stop then you have to do something specially if it is conflicting with your work progress if you can not get anything done bc of him or her then you have to do something about it.
GOOD LUCK

Answer 8

kick his *** and tell him to shut up and if doesn't do so then call ur boy friend and tell him to bash that guy up

Answer 9

are u in love with this guy?


y do keep on noticing him?

Answer 10

try to avoid him and say why u hate him/her