What can be done?
2006-10-13 18:47:08 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Not so much directed at a person... more so about having to start over.
2006-10-13 19:04:26 · update #1
Let it go and focus on the positive. You are not hurting the other person by being angry; you are only ruining your own life by making yourself unhappy & unable to enjoy the moment.
2006-10-13 18:49:03 · answer #1 · answered by Randy G 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I don't know what can be done other than forgive and hope time helps you to forget,because six of my close friends have died, I wrecked my car by hitting a deer, broke up with my boyfriend and got laid off from work all in the last six months. I'm feeling bitter too and a bit depressed. If that doesn't make you feel better just knowing someone else is suffering and bitter, at least it gives you company. I hope you find PEACE.
2006-10-14 01:56:47 · answer #2 · answered by adkspoiledbrat 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I assume you are bitter over an ex. We all feel that way at the end of a relationship (unless it was a good breakup, which hardly ANY are). I find meditation is a good tool. You know all those negative thoughts and feelings you are having? Well, focus it all on one object for a while. Like something that person left behind. Then, (this may sound crazy), bury the object in the ground. Along with it, bury all of those negative thoughts & feelings. Then concentrate on moving on. As they say in the movie "Analyze This", ~"Forget about it."
2006-10-14 01:56:02 · answer #3 · answered by moonbaby3504 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yes, in many ways I do. I've been married for 26 years and after empty nest we don't have much of a marriage. But the kids even though college age would be very disappointed if I left him now. I try to make my own happiness as much as I can. I don't want to be a unhappy person so I turn my feelings and thoughts into other things. If you are breaking up from a long time marriage I would like to know what happens to everyone. Because someday I may just need to separate just to get him to notice.
2006-10-14 04:00:37 · answer #4 · answered by Jan G 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
YES! I plan to get it out of my system. I have a time frame. When the time is up, Ill get over it. :) Until then I am bitter. Soon enough I will be sweet and sometimes sour. This is life....
2006-10-14 01:50:11 · answer #5 · answered by Lynnette G 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
When I feel bitter about someone or something, I go for a run to clear my head. Afterall, there's a saying that says "He who angers u conquers u" so why should I let someone or something bring me down when I have as much of a choice to make myself happy?
2006-10-14 01:56:46 · answer #6 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
oh man im so bitter, i dont know why you are bitter, but i am cuz i like this guy and i swear its like im not even alive i just need to get out and something to get my mind off of my bitterness,and no i dont recommend getting drunk
2006-10-14 01:58:55 · answer #7 · answered by cuteybooty 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I admit I'm feeling a little bitter tonight.. lol
2006-10-14 01:57:07 · answer #8 · answered by cre8tive1ne 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sometimes but I usually dont know what to do so I sleep or write in a journal my feelings towards that person or people and it helps to feel like you are talking with them when you arent.
2006-10-14 01:49:37 · answer #9 · answered by fancy 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Be happy :). What's the point in being bitter? It doesn't help anything and it isn't fun. So why?
2006-10-14 01:49:19 · answer #10 · answered by Devon M 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋