2006-10-13 18:12:34 · 7 answers · asked by trustpuppypink 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
because love is what we as humans long for the most.
Actually, as you get older and have been hurt and have learned who you truely are and what you truely need in a man. Before that it is easier to fall in love because you still see love like a fairy tale....the knight on the white horse to whisk you away and live a romantic ever after life. The love will conquers all fantasy.
I don't mean to make love look bad or you can learn the reality of love. The way to find just what you need. The ability to know that you might fall in love with someone but not be able to make a life with them. The reason there are so many divorices is that people marry on the upside of the romantic -fantasy part of love. True love and lasting relationships are built on much more. I wasn't capable to make that choice when I was young, thus I am divoriced. Now I know what I need in a man and I won't compermise.
2006-10-13 18:26:02 · answer #1 · answered by clcalifornia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't really fall in love that quickly. Love is something that grows and becomes stronger over the years. It's easy to be in lust and mistake it for love that is why there are so many divorces. If it was law that you couldn't sleep with each other for at least a year after starting to date there would be very few divorces because a lot of people wouldn't make it that far.
2006-10-14 01:19:03 · answer #2 · answered by oldmomma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it is easy to fall in love, first of all it's not love maybe infatuation or lust.
Love is a deep feeling that you have to search for once you know some1 for so long and still like them more everyday..and it's whole lot deeper than this...
you can't fall in love easily...it might take years to realize that...
so next time you see a pretty guy you met for a day and think you love him...think again...
hope this helps...good luck
2006-10-14 01:16:45 · answer #3 · answered by Rink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to agree with puffenstu.. give her the 10 points ! Good Luck! :)
2006-10-14 01:16:03 · answer #4 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its easy to get infatuated or lust for.
love takes time and understanding
2006-10-14 01:14:57 · answer #5 · answered by puffenstuffsrevenge 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
bcoz u have no control on ur heart, emotions and feelings.
2006-10-14 01:19:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must have a big heart....
2006-10-14 01:15:28 · answer #7 · answered by Couple of Cents 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋