I feel depressed, lonely, and get thoughts of killing myself, please help me out, this is all linked to school

Question

I feel lonely at school, no girls like me or talk to me, what should i do to feel better

Answer 1

do your best in school , and wait you will meet some great people after you start working , its a different world , after you are out of school who is popular will change greatly. and you may well be the star ..

Answer 2

I went through the exact same thing when I was in school, my whole time in school, every school, from kindergarten to high school. I only had one boyfriend, then he turned out to be gay a few years later. This is life, Hun. I never seriously played with the thought of suicide, though. I always knew in my heart that I was a good person, and better than most because I saw the way other kids did things. They lied, they stole, and deceived their friends. I always knew if I ever did the things they did, I'd be a loser like them. It was hell for me, I got picked on called a lesbian in grade 5 because I dressed like a boy would, never wore dresses, etc, even though I wasnt. I didnt even know what a lesbian was. You must stay strong, you must fight this loneliness. You are better than they. I played a lot by myself, I was confused a lot as to why other kids didnt like me, or the cruel games they'd play on me, and other smaller kids. This means that they are the insecure ones I came to find out years later. Why would you want to be with other kids or girls who dont like you for who you are. They might be judging you on your looks, as many people do, and what a shame that is, but it's a fact.
What I did was to interest myself in things that I could do alone, like painting, drawing, and writing. It turns out, (Im almost 37 now) I became a fairly fine poet. I have 9 poems, that have been published! If you want to see them, you can at www.poetry.com, the rest are published through an International company.
Today, I still am pretty much to myself, but I am with a fine man that I love, and have a little 9 year old boy who is the love of my life.
It's a hard road we MUST travel, but at the end, there is GREAT joy!
Be patient, you are still young. Your happiness will come when you meet up with the RIGHT people, not the WRONG ones, which seems are the ones now that wont speak with you. You will be fine, wait and see. A warm smile from me to you.

PS I feel like smacking xxangelch
PSS I feel a strong desire to smack wilson b, too

Answer 3

The number one thing is to keep trying at school. It will pay off for you when you finally get out of this depression you're in and it will also help you to get to that point. Doing something worthwhile that you had to try hard for automatically increases your self esteem, which is your whole problem in the girl dept. The more you delve into your depression the more you will isolate yourself from the friends and girlfriends you so desperately crave. Stop for a minute and take a deep breath. Realize that nothing happens overnight and this will be a long battle. Then find things in your life to get excited about. I know that's hard b/c you probably think you have nothing to get excited about. But think where your headed. Whatever your major is or whatever you want to be in life focus on that. Success is one of the biggest things that attracts girls. Definitely join some clubs of some sort so you can meet new people and find new interests that will improve your life. Get excited about improving yourself. Once you get this started it will snowball on its own. Once you feel confident about your life and yourself people will love to be around you.

Answer 4

Is there someone you can talk to about how you feel? A parent, friend, relative? Maybe a school counsellor or local pastor/priest?

School is tough for a lot of people. You might be surprised how many feel just the same way you do. It's sure not easy for everyone.

Visit http://www.yellowribbon.org for resources and help. Try to reach out to someone.

Have you thought about volunteering? Either to do stuff in school, or around your community? It gives you a great feeling - helping other people - and is a good way to make friends.

Take care of Yourself - I know it doesn't seem like it right now... but life does get better. There's lots to live for out there, I promise. Good luck to you.

Answer 5

Remeber that this too shall pass. As long as you are unhappy, people will sense it and they probably won't try to get to know you. If you are happy, people sense that too, and might be more attracted to you. It has very little to do with looks, I'm sure you can think of some people who may be fat or ugly, but people like them because they are positive. I know this seems unfair. However, if you want a good, deep, pick me up, rent "Eternal Sunshine of the Spotless mind" Its a cool movie about some troubled people, and it might get you out of you mental rut. "Garden State" is another good one. And check out the cartoons on Homestarrunner.com. Those will give you something to laugh about and maybe even share with some girls. Don't give up.

Answer 6

I hope that you are not playing around. Suicide is never the answer to any problem. You need to talk with an adult. You also need self-esteem. If you are lonely, join a club. If girls don't like you, then they are not worth it. Besides, if you are young, just know that there are girls out there who will one day like you. Just be yourself. And get help immediately.

Answer 7

Loneliness and depression are not related. You go to school for learning. You get better opportunity to learn as no body (girls) disturb in your studies, the purpose of going to school. Moreover, your intellect will attract more minds including girls if you make best use of opportunity of not being disturbed.Mind for killing yourself is the negative thought of the opportunity you got to make best use of.

Answer 8

Talk to your counselor. You need to get help.
Join some clubs in school and outside of school: church groups, music lessons, sports, drama club, etc.
Someday you will realize that this all is meaningless. You will make many friends in the course of your life.

Answer 9

GOSH, Stop feeling sorry for your self...you kno how many people dont have anything to eat in other countries and you are worried about friends. most high school friends dont even talk when they get in college and college friends are just till college when you go in your practicle life there is no friends really. anyway i think that people who worry about friends are just avoiding other problems. i used to be like that, it used to be important to me to be popular but not anymore. and since i stopped worrying about it so much now i have more "friends" then ever. anyway if someone was shooting you, do u think ur friends will come to save u? we get one life stop worrying. enjoy it

Answer 10

Uh, that is not depression.

It is feeling sorry for yourself, being melodramatic (claiming you are having thoughs of killing yourself, who ae you kidding) and the fact that it is over girls...
Laughable. I think you'd be doing the world a favor if you were somehow serious and did top yourself. You need to get some perspective if you were silly enough to ask this sort of question.