If your boyfriend or husband has affair and interested to bring the girl to the family, Will you allow it?
He says he loves you too! . He wants to have that girl as well.
So he wants to make 2 families in one home. ie. he wants to have two wives or 2 girlfriends simultaneously. Will you accept it?
Dr. Phil was solving same kind of case...in tv
2006-10-13 17:52:55 · 22 answers · asked by hindu saint 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sure, he could bring her into the home.
I'd cook a lovely dinner for our family, complete with valium spiked wine for the two of them. Then, when they were comfortably asleep in the bed together, I'd gather the children, the pets and the family heirlooms and leave the house.
After setting it on fire, of course.
So, I guess I've changed my mind. That sounds like a lot of trouble and who wants to wake two sleeping kiddoes just so you can burn down a house? I guess I'd just divorce his sorry buttocks instead.
2006-10-13 18:07:20 · answer #1 · answered by tagi_65 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all Girlfriend and Wife are on 2 different leagues.
You can have 2 girlfriends, however having 2 wives is illegal, but you can be married to one and have Unofficial one in the house.
It really depends on everyones joint decision not just the husband. You need to know how does the wife 1 feel and how does wife2 feel being there. Also you family might be more concerned you having 2 wives over 2 girlfriends. So talk to them and get their opinion..
And if all else fails...Ask you self for the sake of your kids. Did you have 2 moms while you were growing up. Not being mean or smart-*** here...
Hope that helps or answers your ?
2006-10-13 17:57:29 · answer #2 · answered by Rink 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Personally, I won't allow him to bring the girl to our family. It's a direct insult on my dignity as a woman who deserves to be respected.
Very seldom can you find a woman who will allow that set up. If the woman loves the man so much that she may lose him in the process of not allowing him to do that, it is when that woman, no matter how much she hates the idea, will have no other choice but to agree.
But this set up lowers down the dignity and integrity of the members of the family in case there are other members of the family to consider such as kids or in-laws. As much as possible, the boyfiend or the husband should not subject his woman to this kind of decision-making which is rather difficult and hurting.
2006-10-13 18:01:43 · answer #3 · answered by Ruzzo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least he was honest. I don't think it's a good idea. I wouldn't want to share or "Take turn" with some other girl. You deserve better than that girl!!! You need a man that is faithful to you and only you. I know you won't feel special anymore if she start coming into the picture of your relationship. I would totally tell him to choose between me or her.
2006-10-13 18:00:58 · answer #4 · answered by strawberry_kiss_gurlie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
L no! Maybe you can do it but last I checked... it was illegal to be a polygamist. Regardless, will he be able to supply both of you with all the love, affection, and attention that the both of you need? Are you comfortable with it? If you aren't, move on. There are 300 million people in the and I'm sure you can find someone who will appreciate you better than he does.
2006-10-13 17:56:57 · answer #5 · answered by prezidentcuteone 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well you should ask him this who do you love more? he will say i love the both if you the same amount. then say that you only want him and it may be possible that you cant even have 2 wives unless your divorced and go get another one. if you cant resolve the awncer then ask dr. phill
2006-10-13 18:00:18 · answer #6 · answered by delta_bonds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont believe in polygamy! And you shouldnt EVEN make such a consideration. Hellllllo, he had an affair. Why would his girlfriend, or wife even think of allowing such nonsense.
2006-10-13 18:15:15 · answer #7 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you live your life by the television, then sure, why not.
I know a TV show that sells bridges to Hawaii.
2006-10-13 18:32:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
That is just ridiculous. Are you a stupid person? You must be to even consider this. Throw him out.
2006-10-13 18:00:50 · answer #9 · answered by notyou311 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is no way in hell, I am a one man woman, I don't share, tell him to get lost,
2006-10-13 18:09:19 · answer #10 · answered by missouri girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋