well my bf has been acting werid i tell him that i love him and all he said is "u 2" and he ingores me sometimes then he said that hes mom wants him then like 2 min later he will say well i got to go can some one help me on what to do???????? i love him but he never tells me that he loves me HELP NEED REALLY BAD!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-13 17:43:58 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
In my opinion, no he does not love you. In fact, my guess is that you are the most serious relationship he has had and he really doesn't know how to handle it. He might care for you - but if you love someone you treat them with respect and you are careful with their feelings. It sounds like that is not happening here.
Peace!
2006-10-13 17:49:09 · answer #1 · answered by carole 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well since you said he always tells you his mom wants him, I'll assume he's only still in high school. If that's the case, he's probably not ready for that type of committment. Most boys mature more slowly than girls. Give him space and time. Some school relationships last, but most don't. If you love him, just let him feel it on his own time. You can't force that issue. It doesn't mean he's cheating or doesn't like you. You just need to let him grow up first.
2006-10-13 17:51:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, this is a difficult situation, isn't it? First of all, a lot of guys aren't very good about expressing their feelings and saying so, and many times when they say "u2" in response, they really are saying they love you in their own way. Watch the movie "Ghost" for a good example of this.
Boys are also sometimes uncomfortable hearing you say "I love you." In all my years of dating, I still can't figure the guys out most of the time.
Then again, he may not love you, but doesn't know what else to say. I wouldn't worry about it. It's important to love yourself and be confident. If your relationship is good on the other levels, just let it be and move forward. Good luck!
2006-10-13 17:51:58 · answer #3 · answered by Aunt Gwenna 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Some people on here are really mean. I have wondered the same thing in my life. Just quit telling him that and act a little cooler. Maybe it is putting him off. He is risking losing you though. Maybe someone else will tell you what you need to hear. I sympathize with you. BTW, I'm talking about 'question'.
2006-10-13 17:49:33 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl you already no the answer to your question. No. I mean he might actually love you but he has not realized it yet or is not ready to say it. I would not take this as a cause to break up most guys will say it and not mean it at least he take it saying "l love you" to someone seriously. Just talk to him about it an see what he says.
2006-10-13 17:48:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need is to not have a boyfriend. You're clingy and needy. He's not taking that well. It's only going to get worse from here.
Break up. Grow up. Then, when you gain some maturity, you have a chance at success in a romantic relationship.
2006-10-13 17:46:26 · answer #6 · answered by question_ahoy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to say...he might just be insecure and afraid of saying those three special words. You use your judgment though-- is he the type of guy that would be afraid to say something that sentimental? If he isn't, then he might not feel quite that deeply for you. I'm sorry to say it, but that's how it seems by the way he's been acting
2006-10-13 17:48:16 · answer #7 · answered by katherinejean66 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-10-13 17:56:58 · answer #8 · answered by niceguy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry if this sounds harsh but he DOESN'T love you. I can see it's really breaking your heart since he doesn't love you back. Think about it, if he loved you, he would tell you "I love you", but he doesn't. I guess you're having a hard time accepting it but you have to accept it. If he continues to ignore you then maybe it's time you start giving some thought to this relationship. It has to be mutual for a relationship to work. So please don't continue hurting yourself....good luck and best wishes......
2006-10-13 17:50:14 · answer #9 · answered by * TeXaS cHiCk * 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If any guy who says "U 2" either means he loves you as a friend or as he knows you. He doesn't love you love you.
And you don't need yahoo Answers to figure this out. If I said
I love you...what would your response be, and if it was "U 2"
should I take that as you really love me...NO right...so yea...
He doesn't love you as you expect him to....or else his answer would have been different..
Hope that helps.
2006-10-13 17:48:19 · answer #10 · answered by Rink 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋