2006-10-13 17:42:38 · 18 answers · asked by aliaunique06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I know, I have one also. Stop doing anything that makes his life easy. Expect him to help--maybe he will. Take care of those kids well!!! Talk to him about his problem, maybe he has not noticed. and Good luck to u.
2006-10-13 17:49:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well what you SHOULDNT do is treat him as if hes "another" kid, when things start getting ridicules take control of the situation and force him to be realistic he needs to grow up and you shouldnt feel bad about confronting him about it. call him on everything drive him nuts by pointing out everyting hes doing thats childish and a pain in the butt.
2006-10-14 00:47:45 · answer #2 · answered by None 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Amen sister!
Of course, in my case I have to be careful not to expect my husband to be like my dad - I find many people have a tendency to expect their spouse to be like their parent. I try to visualize my husband being wonderful and i try not to say negative things about him, even in my own mind (though that is hard sometimes!). Usually that is the only thing that helps.
Peace!
2006-10-14 00:45:50 · answer #3 · answered by carole 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You're going to have to be more specific. Is he a slob? Is he unemployed? Does he not help with the children? Is he a party animal? I don't know what to say without knowing a little more.
2006-10-14 00:46:09 · answer #4 · answered by Maggie 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The standard vows are "for better or for worse, till death do us part."
Even single life has its ups and downs; you just do not have anyone to share the good or the bad times with.
Hang in there!
It gets better threw good commutation, patience and love.
2006-10-14 00:46:57 · answer #5 · answered by Here I Am 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Make him a bottle of nice warm milk and read him , "The cat in the hat" I think he will get the message.
2006-10-14 00:45:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell him he is grounded. If he acts like a kid, treat him like one.
2006-10-14 00:44:26 · answer #7 · answered by Myra 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Tell him to pick up his toys or go to his room. Ha,ha! He'll probably like that.
2006-10-14 00:45:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
talk to him and tell him that you have enough kids and that he is acting foolish.try taking a break away from him and see if he doesnt strieghtin up!
2006-10-14 00:44:30 · answer #9 · answered by happy-go-lucky 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Ur own choice. Bear it and learn to love/enjoy it.
2006-10-14 00:44:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋