i have been married to my husband for almost 7 yrs.we got 2 kids of our own,and he also have to kids in his previous marriage.he have a bank acct.on his first son and his name and saves all his money in there.we do not have an acct.together,talking to him makes no sense,he says that i keep nagging him,and that his his son.What should i do?
2006-10-13 17:32:53 · 6 answers · asked by lovegirl 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Whatever his history with his previous marriage, he now is maintaining a household with you. That household has expenses, and both partners need to be contributing toward those expenses. As long as that's happening, then keeping a side account for his son shouldn't be a big deal. If that's not what's happening, then you need to make him understand exactly why you object to this situation and propose working on a budget together to get on the same page and come to an agreement. I know this sounds a little cold and business-like but I think maybe that's how you need to present it to him. Try to keep your emotions out of it- discuss it when you're calm.
2006-10-14 10:54:09 · answer #1 · answered by gafpromise 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even After 7years if you dont have the account together i have some doubt in my mind that he is keeping the relation with the Exwife as he has setup an account for his son. He does not want to secure your families future so may be there are chances that he will give you a divorce. So be careful and ask about your future with him.
2006-10-14 00:40:53 · answer #2 · answered by pesific_boy_curious_2_no 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really cant say what to do but whatever happened to whats your is mine and whats mine is yours?thats weird you guys dont have a acct together but these days thats how some guys are i guess im sry
2006-10-14 00:37:14 · answer #3 · answered by kaitlynsauntie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone. hes trying to keep you from spending all the money n ruining ur lives, like what most women do if given the chance.
2006-10-14 00:35:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Divorce him and find a better husband.
2006-10-14 00:55:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's hiding something from you darling!
2006-10-14 00:35:23 · answer #6 · answered by soniaatcalifornia 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋