2006-10-13 17:27:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Neither both. Let's talk about reason.
Open up your mind, have a heart to heart talk with your mom calmly. Both should never blow your top.
Let her tell you all her worries and unhappy about first.
Don't interrupted her, let her finish. Write it down.
Sincerely, answer & satisfy her from all worries.
If you, yourself cannot answer her question.
Why not listen to her this time. No point struggle...ing.
I am very sure all mother loves her child, even it causes her life.
Your mom loves you too, don't break her heart.
But I know, it may break yours.
2006-10-13 17:44:50 · answer #1 · answered by alan chan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This can be a really tricky one. So many times in relationships we are blind to the faults in people. Our heart tells us we like him so much, that we ignore the bad parts. Many times someone on the outside looking in can see very well what's wrong in a relationship...especially mom. So many times my mother was right, but not always. She said the same thing about my husband when we started dating, but we've been married for years and we love eachother very much. Moms are looking out for our best interest. They want us to have the best lives and men possible. Sometimes, mom's ideal man isn't the same as ours. Get a few other trusted people's opinions. See if they all say the same thing mom says.
2006-10-14 00:36:51 · answer #2 · answered by ammellisa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Normally the mother knows best. But you will probably do it the hard way. Everyone normally does. Hope for your sake, your heart is right. But I wish I would of listened to my mother when she told me the same thing. My life would have been a lot different. I know she meant well now! But didn't at the time. You can't turn back time, or I would have. Good Luck.
2006-10-14 00:38:27 · answer #3 · answered by Bobby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should do both..! what im tryin to say is that you can prove to your mom showing her that you and your boyfriend is gonna make it and that you really care for him dats going for your boy too . just follow your heart.. and see where it take you! not everything always goes your way. but with that at least you noe how to handle the situation! in da future when in this type of postion again. hope that helps!
2006-10-14 00:33:35 · answer #4 · answered by sicka 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My mom was never right about anything important. She is thinking of herself, what she would or wouldnt do. Not you. She is thinking what is best for her...sorry...that's my mom!! You cant stop your heart from loving someone anyway. You can have hopes and dreams and you want them to survive the highest odds and loudest doubts.
You can survive many things in the name of love.
2006-10-14 00:43:09 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
unfortunetly your heart doesn't always tell you the truth. sometimes it only tells you what you want to hear. your mom may very well be right. just slow things down. keep at arms length. give it some time. if it still works, then maybe your heart is telling the truth
2006-10-14 00:30:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't listen to your mom, she'll put the seeds of doubt into your brain about the relationship, you should follow your heart and be happy, steer the conversations you have with your mom away from your boyfriend and be happy ... (I wish someone would've told me something like this ... I regret listening to my mom, she was wrong)
2006-10-14 00:36:54 · answer #7 · answered by emnari 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
always follow your heart, no matter what other people say to you follow your heart. do not let anyone stand in your way. unless he treats you badly, or is making you do bad things it does not matter. follow what you believe, and move on from there. good luck.
2006-10-14 00:28:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your mom and you are different
she isnt with him right?
so she shouldnt be making the decisions and such when she doesnt know exactly how you feel about him and such.
always follow your heart
2006-10-14 00:30:21 · answer #9 · answered by donniotran 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we have the same situation. what i did is that i follow my heart.
2006-10-14 00:32:40 · answer #10 · answered by freakybhabhie28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋