I have developed a crush on someone, and she has recently left my place of employment. I'm not sure if she liked me back. Assuming she was gay and a lot of ppl I know did assume that, then I think she was afraid to say anything because I am younger than she is. I have caught her looking at me when I wasn't looking-and I mean a full look.
I thought about looking her name up in a phone book and just sending a postcard or a letter or something. I don't know if I should even bother though since we don't work together anymore. Plus, she is probably 10-15 years older than I am and that could be awkward for her.
She is really beautiful and an amazing woman with a great sense of humor. I want to tell her my feelings but don't want to sound "stalkerish".
I thought about making postcards shaped like puzzle pieces and having them eventually spell out a phrase or something-kind of have fun with the whole thing. What should I do? Forget the whole thing or try to be creative?
2006-10-13 16:47:16 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
My husband is 10 years my senior and we have been together
7+ years. I took a chance and am much happier for doing so.
It's a risk I know but, do you really want to wonder "what if" for the rest of your life? TAKE THE CHANCE!! What doesn't kill you will truly make you stronger. MY HUSBAND AND I WISH YOU ALL THE BEST!!!!
2006-10-13 17:17:42 · answer #1 · answered by arcabear69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age is nothing but a number- if it makes you happy then i say go for it..know you answer me a question..would you be better off/ happier living the rest of life wondering what if or takeing a chance and 1 being happy with this person or 2 just becoming good friends that you can talk to about your sexuality- I know most people dont have friends that they can share stories, experiences and what not with- be creative she will probably like it. Good Luck! :)
2006-10-13 16:53:30 · answer #2 · answered by What Do you Think? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should go for it. You never know what may happen. I felt the same way towards a friend of mine. I got out of the military and a friend that I always liked started writing me, I always thought he might be gay too so I opened up and told him that I liked him, I never heard back from him. It kind of sucked because now he will spend the rest of his life thinking I was Gay, but my life had changed and I was open so I didn't have to hide being Gay. I still have great memories of him and our friendship, and I think I might have soured his memories of our friendship. But what can you do. It could have worked out differently he could have written me back and said he felt the same towards me. But I would have never have known if I didn't tell him. So go for it, life goes on. And you might just get lucky and find the woman of dreams. It's like playing the lottery, if you don't play you won't win.
2006-10-13 17:00:00 · answer #3 · answered by IM THE GAY GOD ALL FEAR ME 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont play silly games or try to be creative. Just give her a call and ask her out on a date...be specific about it BEING a date or she might just think you mean as a friend. If she knocks you back...at least you tried.
2006-10-13 16:51:26 · answer #4 · answered by Scully 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just call her and ask her if she is interested in seeing you
2006-10-13 16:53:43 · answer #5 · answered by kitt_kattkitt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it up u .
2006-10-13 19:23:01 · answer #6 · answered by djonecat@yahoo.com 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋