Should I confront my husbands mistress, and cause havoc in her life?

Question

I know all her information , social, birthdate,address, EVERYTHING

Answer 1

oh hell yes! my husband is just like yours and she even moved in our town to be closer to him. i give her hell every chance i can,even had the law called on me for telecommunication harassment.my job is to make her life a living hell all i can and will.

Answer 2

I like the people that say just dump him, get on with your life. They have no idea what it feels like to have this happen to you. You are not thinking clearly or sleeping and eating right because the thoughts consume you day and night. You're hurt inside and soon it turns to anger when you hit the anger part it will be a bit easier to handle. Its instinct to want a confrontation but an adult confrontation not a "beat her ***" type. Yes, I would confront her in a calm manner and preferably when they were together. Straight to the point in a very monotone voice proceed to tell them both what they are and that is low life snakes slithering around embarrassing themselves in front of everyone you know. You can put a little scare in them both and if they met and hooked up at work you are informing supervision. Whatever you decide I'm with you because it is the most intense pain a person can feel.

Answer 3

No. All it will do is make you look psychotic and pathetic. It's totally undignified, and I would never go out like that. Aside from that, she'll probably call the cops because you're harassing her. If you get stupid, you'll get caught and possibly go to jail. It will just piss your husband off and make him act even more like an a**wipe.

What you should do is set aside your anger long enough to question whether or not you want to stay married to this guy.

If anything, your anger should be directed at him. It doesn't matter what she's done, HE'S YOUR HUSBAND. He didn't have to do anything but resist temptation and remain faithful. It's not that dang hard to do. Besides; if you work this one over, he'll just find someone else and be more careful than he was with the last one.

Answer 4

i might have overwhelmed the piss out of him already with divorce papers in hand. Confront him or save asking this question many times. which you will do as your profile proves with 3 weeks of an analogous question. so which you would be able to sit down right here bitter and offended asking a gaggle of strangers what to do, or you are able to take administration over your existence.....and confront him. or you are able to save asking an analogous question many times. Your decision. yet you comprehend what, you're that poster AA, A, J, !!, and ?. you comprehend the girls that asked an analogous question nonstop approximately 15 circumstances an afternoon on 7 diverse money owed for a 365 days. I see you began a sparkling account and have shrink your very long unique questions all the way down to 3 sentences. No, you will in no way confront him. you will save posting on right here hoping somebody licks your wounds and tells you he doesn’t love her.

Answer 5

No, you should let her have him, because it has been my experience that when a man leaves his wife for another woman, that is exactly how he leaves the mistress. Why in the world would she ever think he would be faithful to her? I mean he was cheating when he met her. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Go find yourself a good, successful, moral man, and live a great life. Success is the best revenge.

Answer 6

what would be the point it may make you feel better at the time but it isn't going to fix anything. Go and see a good divorce lawyer and let her have him so he can cheat on her when he gets tired of being in her bed. Personally I know this is what's best but I really know where you are coming from. Just skid the dud.

Answer 7

Why would you do that? What about confronting your husband and causing havoc in HIS life. He CHOSE to have a mistress, she just happens to be the one he chose, he is just as much responsible for their affair as she is.

Answer 8

The only contact you should have with her is to be sure she knows he's married. She may or may not care but she should know just in case. If she already knows and doesn't care, then the best thing to do would be to somehow make her think she's not the only one he's fooling around with, make her worry ;) Then she'll know how it feels. Oh, I know! If you know of a time they'll be together, send her flowers or a gift (cheap, of course. Hubby sure won't know the difference) with another man's name on the card, anything to make them suspicious of each other. Make him worry! Last but not least, get solid proof of his cheating and DIVORCE him! Photos, photos and more photos! Be smart! And move on...

Answer 9

I probably would. She caused havoc in yours so, why the hesitation. Do what you want. You say mistress like it's not a thing of the past. I'd get rid of him.

Answer 10

If I were you I wouldn' t do anything at all to make her life a living hell. I would leave things as they are. You know why? Because whatever she did to you someone else will do it to her as well. Only then will she suffer what you have suffered. Don't sink to her level. Be a respectul woman, and let destiny take care of the rest.

Answer 11

He's having his fun, and you could, too. The problem with this is that you'd be direspecting yourself by showing out. Be on the classy side of enraged. Don't give either one of them a show. They don't deserve it. It would be a waste of your time and your effort, and they're not worth either one.

The most dramatic effect I've ever seen: a woman went to her pastor with it, and the ladies from her church group posted him in the church bulletin for prayer. He straightened up real quick!