my boyfriend of 4 years cheated on me with a girl he stay with for almost 8 months when i found out he stop and told me he didn't want her like that but for me he had feelings tours her. then we try our relacionship again becouse we got a baby together and he opened a myspace page and all he gots its girls and wont give me his password and now i just found out he went to a club with one of the girls he has in his page and also been talking to her on the phone for 3 weeks. and also been talking to the girl that got him a job i ask him about it but he says hes not talking to them like that but i dont trust him becouse if he wasent talking to them like. what can i do how can i get away from him becouse he dont want to let me go but im way to hurt and sometimes i feel like giving him a chance becouse we got the baby together but at the same time i want to talk to him with the right words. what should i do.
2006-10-13 16:41:28 · 20 answers · asked by nena 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Like your situation my boyfriend of 4 years also cheated on me, I chose to stay but regret it often. Trust is needed for a good relationship and I just can't gain my trust back. Your situation is a lot more difficult with a baby involved but you do not deserve to be treated like this. Maybe you should get away from him stay at your family or your friends house or something and make your boyfriend work his as* off to get you back, maybe once your gone he will learn to appreciate you and treat you how you should be treated.
2006-10-13 16:53:13 · answer #1 · answered by *Amanda* 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1 is 1 2 many
2006-10-13 16:43:49 · answer #2 · answered by city 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen and Learn: No matter how much you complain about what he's doing and who he's doing it with if he's not ready to change it's not going to happen. He's going to cont. to do what he wants to do becuz he knows that he can tell you a sob *** story about these bitches and you'll give him another chance.....and believe you me I know how the game go. You complain and then he say those girls don't mean nothing to me, I love you, and I want to be with you, you the mother of my child. All that stuff sounds good and it makes you feel all warm inside and then you find youself forgiving him and then he goes off and do it again, and before you know it it's a cycle that won't stop unless you make it stop. You can do better!!!!! Get at me again if you need more advice becuz I know how you feel.....CONFUSED
2006-10-13 16:52:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He doesnt love you if he is cheating on you....he is a LOSER! I would kick him to the curb and move on. I know being a single parent is hard b/c I was one for 15yrs. I have lived by this motto: Once a cheater, always a cheater. You cant change him..just isnt possible. There is someone out there for you who will treat you like you should be treated. He doesnt want you....BUT he doesnt want anyone else to have you either. Your first instict is usually correct....save yourself the heartache.
Good luck and best wishes for a brighter future with your child.
2006-10-13 16:51:20 · answer #4 · answered by Kimberly 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey? You should ask him what they have and/or do for him that you don't. Then, dump him and then you will know what you may have been lacking and keep the next man faithful to you for evah!!! I'm not saying it is your fault that he is a cad, I'm just saying that we all must accept our responsibility for failure in a relationship. I have always thought that when a man goes astray, it is something the woman isn't doing for him and vice versa. The woman could be bitching him out for straying, which really isn't anyone's fault but the both of you. Just let him go. It wasn't meant to be. Besides, when you hang around hoping for a relationship to improve, you will probably miss out on meeting the man of your dreams who will be faithful to you and love you for exactly who you are. When one door shuts, one door opens. Good luck.
DUMP HIS BUTT!
2006-10-13 16:51:25 · answer #5 · answered by sherijgriggs 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-05-22 00:22:05 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him your sleeping with some one else. tell him this just isnt working. if hes cheeting on you hes doing it to his family. the time hes with these girls he could be spending with you and the baby. get rid of him hes not worth it besides theres a lot of guys out there who would love to be with you even if you have a baby. good luck hun kick him to the curb!!! he didnt learn the first time.
2006-10-13 16:45:58 · answer #7 · answered by evilella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mhhh hmmm no one can tell u what to do but i would leave, its different if a man cheats and has a one night stand but hes takeing time out for these woman- i would call it quits think about this if you stay with him and have a daughter she will be more likely to let a man do to her what hes doing to you, and if it is a boy, he will be more likely to do his girlfriend like that
2006-10-13 16:45:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should better yourself by getting back in school and making a good life for you and your baby. Once a cheater always a cheater...forget him.
2006-10-13 16:46:43 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You and your baby deserve more than that. He is not a good influence for your child. Just stay away- you don't need him for anything other than child support.
2006-10-13 16:44:19 · answer #10 · answered by ELLE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋