how do you not be so shy when pulic speaking, or being around cool kids, or singing infront of the whole school when you wont even sing infront of your mom?!
2006-10-13 16:39:17 · 10 answers · asked by ~redneck~sweetheart~ 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
please no mean, hurt ful, or just plain rude comments.
2006-10-13 16:41:13 · update #1
This is what makes you unique,people will respect you for being yourself.
2006-10-13 16:43:20 · answer #1 · answered by Rather be dead than red... 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's really hard to do in middle and high school. It's a place where other kids are constantly being judged by what they look like, what group they are a part of, financial status, etc. It's all really quite stupid, but you won't realize that until you're out of school. Just try to remember that the cool kids are real people with real problems too. They are not perfect and they all have their own insecurities. Once you make yourself stand up and speak or whatever and you do a good job, you'll have more self confidence to do it more often. You have to understand that you probably have a lot of wonderful and interesting qualities. You can't worry about what other people say about you because other people will always have something to say. I know it's easier said than done right now, but trust me, this will fade away after you graduate from high school. The kids who were cool, won't necessarily be cool any more. The dorks won't be so geeky anymore.....everybody changes because once you have to strike out on your own, you're left to your own devices. That means people will start to look at you as an individual and for what qualities you personally, have to bring. At that point, your confidence will start to develop.
2006-10-13 17:11:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not really sure becuz I was shy when I was in school. I got made fun of a lot and hated every min. of it. If I wasnt shy then I probably would have stood up and said somethin to the kids sayin and doing mean things. I am deaf and no one else in my hs was and i got made fun of becuz of that and bc i wasnt skinny. It was hard to break out of my shell until i got with my fiance. He really brings out the best in me.
2006-10-13 16:54:16 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
the suited way is to rigidity your self to do it a pair cases and then that's going to come of course. yet till your extremely shy than I wouldnt subject approximately it. I infrequently ever introduce myself to people I dont ought to in a clean environment, till it comes up. and often by using the top of the 1st week I definitely have made a minimum of two friends. in basic terms be your self and loosen up.
2016-10-16 04:27:04 · answer #4 · answered by dmitriev 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it's hard to do. Trust me, I've been there. Public speaking is the worst. The only advice I can give is to be yourself. Don't let anyone intimidate you. When the time is right, you'll know it. Don't forget, BE YOURSELF!
2006-10-13 17:48:09 · answer #5 · answered by Celtic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
avoid yeast bread and take olive leaf to counteract the bad effects of yeast
also take evening primrose oil with fish oil
u'll be fine
2006-10-13 16:42:14 · answer #6 · answered by globalveg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to be out-going around smaller groups and your friends!
let your confidence build and go do things when your more comfortable!
Who wouldn't be scared singing in front of their school??!?
Best of luck--you CAN do it!
2006-10-13 16:43:52 · answer #7 · answered by f4fanactic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well even if you're shy, just do what you have to do.. later on as you are doing it, your shyness will just disappear.
2006-10-13 16:45:39 · answer #8 · answered by d&r08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just remember,
your opinion about yourself,
means more to you
than there opinion does.
2006-10-13 16:44:49 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask me!
join clubs..
2006-10-13 16:42:04 · answer #10 · answered by Maria 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋