I am in 7th rade and there is this 8th grader who is so fine. He always says he likes me but, i know he is just playing. I think he is cute but...what should i do??ask him out , flirt with him back, or play hard to get.
2006-10-13 15:59:21 · 13 answers · asked by High_fashion CHIC 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
JUST be yourself.....if he is interested he will pursue...i hate to say this but it's still a majority man's world....they love the hunt.....if you play games now at such a young age...everyone will know your game by the time it comes to some serious dating and no one will want you...use you yes but want you no....think about it...you want someone sincere right?!...so don't you think a boy wants the same thing...be nice...don't be phony....or flirt too much...then you'll get a title for yourself!....my boyfriend fell in love with me because he said I'd walk into a room like a owned it...(not in a Bit## way but a good way)..and he liked that...that I seemed sure (even if i wasn't i would never let people know that!)....of myself and didn't have a care in the world or didn't care what people thought of me....he knew I was independent...and didn't need him but wanted him...there's a big difference....now that you're getting older there'll be a lot of time to figure that out...so have fun and play it safe....
2006-10-13 16:06:57 · answer #1 · answered by TWISTER 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't ask him out! thats the guys job not the girls it just makes you look desperate. start 2 flirt with him and if he flirts back then play hard 2 get
2006-10-13 23:03:17 · answer #2 · answered by Ern Bucket 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Try and ask his friends!! coz you knw boys spend most of their time flirting out with boys and also share their thaughts with them..
if he is serious, try out him for a few days and and then you would get the attitude of him whether he is playing the foool or not>>>
If he was just joking slap him\\\\\
HOPE IT COMES WELL>>
BA BYE!!
2006-10-13 23:15:06 · answer #3 · answered by SHAHID 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to play games? First rule of relationships;
Believe what he says.
If it proves to be a lie... you're too good to go out with liars. drop him.
You can suggest to go for a walk. Go to the library. There's nothing wrong with that. NEVER PLAY AT ANYTHING (don't play hard to get, don't play at being easy)... just be yourself.
2006-10-13 23:05:21 · answer #4 · answered by Common Sense 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl you should just flirt with him. once you go out and something happens the frienshp is lost and everthing is weird. also i think a realatonship goes bad when the girls ask trust me ive done it before dumped me the next day .
2006-10-13 23:11:40 · answer #5 · answered by Kels 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should play "hard-to-get". Hehe, and if you like him, too...then just ask him out, then you will know if he's playing around or not.
2006-10-13 23:01:28 · answer #6 · answered by Brooke 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how do you know he's just playing? he's probably flirting with you for a reason. yeah but i wouldn't ask him out right now--wait 'til you know him better...who knows...he might ask you out soon. but for now, just be patient :) and if it doesn't work out...there are plenty of other guys.
2006-10-13 23:02:12 · answer #7 · answered by Kayla Chris 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you know he is playing with you then you just get out from there but if you want to give him a chance then go forward to talk.
2006-10-13 23:09:08 · answer #8 · answered by sushma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st step-look as hot as you can, 2nd-ignore him, 3rd-when you he comes to you play hard to get.....im gunna tell you..most guys are assholes and they deserve to work their asses off to get you especially if everyone thinks their so fine and this and that..cauz then their just gunna think their the leader in the relationship..make him work. i know from experience
2006-10-13 23:05:26 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him make the first move. Don't let him know how you feel until he makes clear how he feels about you.
2006-10-13 23:04:19 · answer #10 · answered by sherijgriggs 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋