do you find them boring? or do you not really care? or anything else?
2006-10-13 15:30:41 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i'm shy myself. thats why i was wondering. i want to know what people really think of me.
2006-10-13 15:48:52 · update #1
I found that if you prompt them then they usually have a lot to say and are very interesting. Shy people tend to be introverted, and therefore introspective so they are quite thoughtful. Unfortunately, they are uncomfortable taking the first step (or even the first few steps). But once you make them comfortable with you without being intimidating they can be the most genuine and interesting friends.
2006-10-13 15:35:30 · answer #1 · answered by lennox525 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I watch people before I say anything because I've found people appear smarter when quiet. I try to take time to asset the situation and see if I need to jump into the conversation or allow others to make fools of themselves. Watch and learn.
2006-10-13 22:36:49 · answer #2 · answered by chayrrah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I prefer them to obnoxious people who don't know when to shut up, or to people who have no idea about how to communicate in a decent manner. Everything is pretty much okay in moderation. Too shy might be a little disconcerting, though...
2006-10-13 22:33:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im very shy at first. But if you get to know me i never shut up. So it just really at getting them to open up.. dont pass them by they could be the funnest people to hang with!
2006-10-13 22:35:02 · answer #4 · answered by Krystal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am one of them and Im just self-consceous. If yuo see a shy person, just make friends with them and dont give up on them. I wouldnt be a boring person if im not intimidated
2006-10-13 22:33:35 · answer #5 · answered by mel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people are hard to open up about stuff and I can relate because I can be painfully shy sometimes. Heck, my whole personality is introverted.
2006-10-13 22:31:56 · answer #6 · answered by chrstnwrtr 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They may start shy and open up, so their not necessarily boring once they open up. Everyone has their own personality and they should try to change it for anyone.
2006-10-13 22:32:59 · answer #7 · answered by Manita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is absolutely nothing wrong with being shy. It is a natural feeling of conservatism. Good luck and God bless!
2006-10-14 13:35:57 · answer #8 · answered by Stefanie K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that they must be very interesting and have alot to say to the right person. I would try and get to know them better so I could explore what they have to say.
2006-10-13 22:32:28 · answer #9 · answered by Sassy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
me being a very quiet person there is nothing wrong with them some of them have good reasons for not talking too much
2006-10-13 22:33:16 · answer #10 · answered by sk8erhjk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋