I need some inspiration now!?

Question

I am 29, very attractive, divorcee with 3 kids. Still a chance for love, I wonder?

Answer 1

Most definately. If it is "love" you are looking for, you will find it, but be patient.

Answer 2

I read this somewhere and it inspired me so hopefully it might do the same 4 u :)

if a man wants you
If A Man Wants You
> > If a man wants you, nothing can keep him away.
> > If he doesn't want you, nothing can make him stay.
> > Stop making excuses for a man and his behavior.
Allow your intuition (or spirit) to save you from heartache.
> > Stop trying to change yourselves for a relationship that's not meant to
be.
> > Slower is better. Never live your life for a man before you find
> > what makes you truly happy. If a relationship ends because the man
was not treating you as you deserve then heck no, you can't "be friends."
> > A friend wouldn't mistreat a friend. Don't settle. If you feel like he
> > is stringing you along, then he probably is.

> > Don't stay because you think "it will get better." You'll be mad at
> > yourself a year later for staying when things are not better.
> > The only person you can control in a relationship is you.
> > Avoid men who've got a bunch of children by a bunch of different
> > women. He didn't marry them when he got them pregnant,
> > Why would he treat you any differently?
Always have your own set of friends separate from his.
> > Maintain boundaries in how a guy treats you. If something bothers
> > you, speak up. Never let a man know everything. He will use it against you
> > later. You cannot change a man's behavior. Change comes from within.

> > Don't EVER make him feel he is more important than you are... even
> > if he has more education or in a better job. Do not make him into a
> > quasi-god. He is a man, nothing more nothing less.
Never let a man define who you are. Never borrow someone else's man.
> > If he cheated with you, he'll cheat on you.
> > A man will only treat you the way you ALLOW him to treat you.
> > All men are NOT dogs. (Amen to that!!)
> > You should not be the one doing all the bending...compromise is a two
way street.
> You need time to heal between relationships...there is nothing cute
> > about baggage... deal with your issues before pursuing a new
> > relationship. You should never look for someone to COMPLETE you...
> > a relationship consists of two WHOLE individuals...look for someone
> > complimentary...not supplementary. Dating is fun...even if he
> > doesn't turn out to be Mr. Right.
> >
> >
> > Make him miss you sometimes...when a man always know where you
> > are, and you're always readily available to him ... he takes it for granted
> Never move into his mother's house. Never co-sign for a man. Hallelujah,
thank you JESUS!!
Don't fully commit to a man who doesn't give you everything that
you need.
> Keep him in your radar but get to know others.
> > Share this with other ladies ... You'll make someone smile,
> > another rethink her choices, and another woman prepare. They say it
takes a minute to find a special person, an hour to appreciate them, a day
> > to love them and an entire lifetime to forget them...
> >

Answer 3

Very attractive so you say,,, then you have plenty, but you should not hurry, with 3 kids on the side, some men maybe turned-off, others may just take advantage of your loveless life and think you just crave for sex and after that will just leave you hanging..

Just take your time, a good guy will come and will take responsibility of your kids and would be willing to marry you and your kids all in one package,,,, by then,,, you have the right guy...

Otherwise,,, better just stay single the rest of your life...
Don't worry about sex.. there are a lot of toys around there,,, you can use in your private moments without the hassles of a man, you are not even sure will love your kids as well as you..

Answer 4

There aren't many good men out there so you have to be very careful. Respect yourself, don't settle for less and learn to dump the dogs...fast. Adopt good morals, values and integrity. Do go out with anyone that does not possess those either.

It is best to concentrate on following your dreams, take care of your kids and build a great life for all of you. That may attract a quality man.

Also, you have a harsh look to you with all the eyeliner. If you did away with it, I personally think you'd look much better. Just a suggestion.

Answer 5

Ha Honey- I have three kids as well- was with my first husband for six years- was earthshattered at the divorce- I felt my life and my dreams and my children crumbling in my hands so fast I couldn't hold all the pieces together... then... whoa- met the man of my dreams and my very best friend- we are going on our third happy year right now. "there are as many forms of love as there are moments in time" sure you'll find love from a man- but what got me through it was the love that found me in the form of my children's needs and smiles (and tears sometimes) make sure you smile through the tears sweetie-remember that.

Answer 6

Stop looking... He who finds, not she who finds.You said, you have 3 children, that means you don't have to much time anyway. Everything has it's time and purpose, and right now it's the kids time. When you stop looking, at that least expected time, he'll come into your life and you won't know what hit you. So just sit back, relax, enjoy your kids and wait.
When it's time for that right person to come, he'll come. And not a minute sooner.
Enjoy your kids, don't let this opportunity pass you by. They grow up so fast.

Answer 7

Katy,
Don't lose hope. When the time is right you will find out that patience pays off. Till then do whatever makes you happy and keeps you together physically, mentally, spiritually, and emotionally. Above all else, trust in the Lord to help you and persistently pray for what you need. You'll be glad that you did.

Answer 8

You have more of a chance then me. I'm 42 with 3 children and overweight.
Dont give up. When the time is right, you will fine love again.

Answer 9

yes there is. absolutely. :)

Take heart, you are alive, you've got the intelligence, the strength and the capacity to love deeply.

the real love, the deep abiding love comes from within. Then the guy of your dreams will see that, see you and fall in love. It happens.

Start by believing in yourself. Work to be positive, open, honest, caring, giving, supportive. Build stellar communications with family, friends and 'the potential man'..... GIVE of yourself, and ask little in return. Improve actively listening skills, so that you know what they said, yet even more clearly you GOT what they meant----and they know it (repeat it back in your own words)!!!

Answer 10

girl, you can do anything . take your kids with you on the date see if he like you with or without kids. i am only 24with 3 kids when i got an divorce and a year later got married again at 25. you are beautiful inside and out.

Answer 11

you are young of course. just look the part and decide what type of man you want. Some want a religious type others want a more secular type some want rich some want good looking. Date on line but make sure you let them know you have kids. Don't put all their pictures on line. Guys don't want to date your kids they want to meet you first. If they want to date your kids then you don't want to know them.