2006-10-13 14:54:17 · 14 answers · asked by Polash 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If u can imagine her walking out the door and out of your life and u won't feel a thing (neither happy, sad nor angry) then u probably don't love her anymore.
2006-10-13 15:21:15 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Symptoms of not loving???Just not caring, her not being important, not paying attention to things that matter to her.Just not caring wether you go home to her, doing things with her. Do you have feelings for your wife? Do you still feel stirrings enough to be intimate with your wife? Ask your self would you die for her, would take care of her if she couldn't take care of her self?
If you feel nothing then no you don't love her..if you feel a little then figure out whats wrong and why you don't feel more. See if you can rekindle whats left and make more love.
~Good Luck~
2006-10-13 15:02:02 · answer #2 · answered by vtlovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The main symptom of not loving is questioning how not loving feels...LOL meaning if your questioning your love, that means your probably not feeling it or not as much as you used to. the loss of interest is HUGE symptom if you dont want to hear what she has to say, that means you really dont care and if you dont love her you should talk it over or go to a marriage counselor if you feel that you still have a chance.
2006-10-13 15:02:56 · answer #3 · answered by dreamerrrr 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a throw-away society - people get bored and think they need a divorce, then they get "bored" with the next one and the next...
Really, if you are bored and she is bored - it's your own faults. FIND something exciting to do together, dancing classes, hiking, rock climbing, yoga, I don't care just DO IT.
Write in a journal for one another why you are thankful you are together. There are always lots of ways to enhance a relationship. Being bored is a sign you are both not putting enough effort out.
2006-10-13 15:36:16 · answer #4 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love like most things in Life goes and comes in cycles, there may be times when she is the only thing on your mind and then there will be times when you only think of her two or three times a day. I dont think love( or lack thereof) is symptomatic it varies from person to person and what works for me may not work for you. Have you considered counseling? It helps a lot of people.
2006-10-13 15:03:29 · answer #5 · answered by snoop_dougie_doug04 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just stop trying! Love is a verb! It means it's something that you do. Sounds like you stopped doing a long time ago. Sorry, this is your bad not your wifes.
2006-10-13 15:40:36 · answer #6 · answered by delux_version 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well I guess if your still there then you must have some love left. Not sure if there are "symptoms" but if you feel absolutely nothing at all when your around her then I guess it's time to move on.
2006-10-13 14:57:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is not something you catch like a disease, or you fall in and out of. It is a behavior that you choose.
If you don't love your wife as you promised on your wedding day, it's because of your bad attitude. Only you can make it better.
2006-10-13 14:57:53 · answer #8 · answered by Privratnik 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't mistake the hot passion backing off as not loving. Look inside your soul and try to imagine your life with out her, that should put the proper perspective on your question.
2006-10-13 14:56:40 · answer #9 · answered by sosueme534 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think that you would know when she kiss you and you don't feel anything or when she wants to be with you and you don't want to because she doesn't attract you anymore I think dose are the symptoms.
2006-10-13 14:57:08 · answer #10 · answered by brenda1486 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋