I have a friend at work who told me today that she is going to break up with her boyfriend of 14 years. Her reason for breaking up with him is because he wants her to give him piggyback rides to get him turned on. If she says no, he gets mad at her and breaks up with her. Shes tired of doing this for him. He is three times her size and shes not a big person at all. The guy is a loser, right?
2006-10-13 14:09:38 · 24 answers · asked by Coodles 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
it is a disturbing image, what kind of freak would make a woman do this?
2006-10-13 14:15:24 · update #1
WTF she should have dumped his butt after that first ride!
2006-10-13 14:11:47 · answer #1 · answered by Rock Doll 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I don't think the guy is a loser, he's either just stupid or has a medical problem. Being overweight, means he either has a medical problem like diabetes, or he can't control himself. It sounds like the latter to me and he's just lazy and is using getting "turned on" as an excuse for a bad attititude. I think she should tell him he needs to go and have a diabetes check, and while he's at it get some counselling. If he really loves your friend he will go to the doctor, get the counselling, undertake exercise, and eat a proper diet.
Either way, your friend is risking injury, and needs to ask herself a simple but important question: Does she think he will look after for the rest of her if she becomes paralysed / crippled because of his stupidity? If the answer is "No" then she needs to make changes.
2006-10-13 21:31:03 · answer #2 · answered by Bad bus driving wolf 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Losers how about Michael J Fox. I went to one of his relatives for a baby shower and all I could think of was Princess Beatrice. And when I finally did go to the Michael J Fox theatre I saw some acrobats. Quite amazing really...Chew on that.
Oh and I know someone that graduated with him.
2006-10-13 21:15:56 · answer #3 · answered by JustLynn 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a loser to me. I mean piggyback rides?...that's weird in itself and considering the difference in their sizes, it makes it seem more bazaar. He sounds like a spoiled child who, if he doesn't get his way, throws a tantrum and pouts. I just can't understand why she put up with it so long.
2006-10-13 21:16:25 · answer #4 · answered by Oenophile... (Lynn) 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with liking piggy-back rides or other quirks. When I got married, my pastor gave us a great piece of advice, which was that anything is all right sexually, provided both parties are willing and neither one gets hurt.
HOWEVER... It sounds to me like this guy is a user and a loser, extremely selfish and childish. Your friend needs to let him go and find someone who cares about HER wishes and feelings.
It's too bad she has wasted 14 years of her life with him when she could have been with a guy who cares as much about her as he does about his piggy-back rides.
2006-10-13 21:18:39 · answer #5 · answered by Don P 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She might as well break up with him now, while she has still got strength in her back. It sounds as though he will be through with her, if she gets down in her back.
Gee!! The dangerous games people play!
2006-10-13 21:16:12 · answer #6 · answered by kayboff 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yea Vlads question
2006-10-13 21:13:28 · answer #7 · answered by E.B. 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
way way loser send her my way i will give her piggyback rides
2006-10-13 21:17:21 · answer #8 · answered by k dog 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what kind of person gets turned on by piggy back rides??
2006-10-13 21:11:00 · answer #9 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think its like asking her to grow a penis ....and he knows she cant ! So basically he is trying to leave her and not make it " his fault " ....well IT IS HIS FAULT ! So if he cant handle that ....tell her to go and tell him it WAS all his fault . What a P*SSY !! I cant stand losers like him !
2006-10-13 21:17:20 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say it was stupid. I would say it's warped. Is he a loser? Yeah.
2006-10-13 21:16:57 · answer #11 · answered by angry 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋