Well me and my girlfriend are both kinda quiet but wen we on the phone we talk fo like 3-4 hours.....but once we in person she starts to get quiet. I guess i get quiet to. I just wanted to know what should i do?
2006-10-13 13:38:05 · 5 answers · asked by PrettyBoi 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Try to draw her out, she is shy, perhaps unsure of herself. Remember some of the things she had talked about and ask her questions about these things. People really do like to talk about themselves and if you get them talking it breaks an ice burg shyness..
2006-10-13 13:47:14 · answer #1 · answered by poet_by_nature 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of you should take the initiative and get the conversation going, just like when you're on the phone.
If you can't interact successfully in person, then you won't have much of a relationship, so this is something worth spending time on to get right.
2006-10-13 20:47:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk about things that you both like or enjoy : music, movies, clothes, etc. I'm a guy and if I'm with my buddies we tend to talk about either things that we have done that we like or things that we want to do. Drinking helps but only if you're of age.
2006-10-13 21:35:04 · answer #3 · answered by twangler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just start by talking about your day, and go from there.
2006-10-13 20:39:36 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask questions about her and try to talk more about her girls like that alot
2006-10-13 21:17:27 · answer #5 · answered by kizprince123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋