I know a man who cant get past his past.Theropy,counciling etc. and still he dwells on yester year.Is there any help for this?
2006-10-13 13:16:58 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
This guys got problems,he's institutionized but allowed out days 'cause he's harmless to everyone but himself
2006-10-13 13:30:27 · update #1
I drift between the past and the present, but look to the future. I know it's hard to let go of the past, but it's senseless to dwell for too long - it can really break you down. Reflect and move on...your friend is just going to have to learn that. My only advice is to give him the time he needs to accept his past, and for you to always offer your support and friendship along the way.
2006-10-13 14:46:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do anyone live for today or wander in the past? I like to remember the past but, that does not affect me in wishing that things will go better in the future, not only for me but, for the whole human race. Life in the past was so much better then it is today, I was a tiny girl in the forty's and we used to sleep with our door open, nowadays, you can not do that with all the violence that is sprouting up like a weed. There is nothing wrong to think of yesteryear, maybe your friend feels safe thinking of his past rather then the future. If he is in therapy he will get better with time.
2006-10-13 13:47:16 · answer #2 · answered by a.vasquez7413@sbcglobal.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would have to say i try to live for today but theres a few things in my past that are always there, and i wish i had the answer to get rid of them but i havent found one yet so if you do let us know
2006-10-13 13:30:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i constantly reflect on my past , but only to say that what i worried about as a teen wasn't all that major now as an adult.. an if i could go back to 1987 as teen girl but with my 30ish mind i would have made better decisions and that this one guy would have been mind
2006-10-13 13:30:05 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Probably stuck in the middle. Not so concerned about yesterday, but probably too comfortable assuming tomorrow will come.
2006-10-13 13:21:52 · answer #5 · answered by simi-guy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I learn from the past, but live for today and future.
2006-10-13 14:29:02 · answer #6 · answered by g-wiz man 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Live for today buy not yet tomorrow! Tomorrow never dies, except when you are! What is today but 2 days ago tomorrow tomorrow?
2006-10-13 13:20:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋