I have a friend who just broke up with her boyfriend,and 4 about a month we were making vows 2 eachothjer that we will be singls 4 the school year.2 months later,tells me that she's going 2 the movies wikth this guy "JUST AS FRIENDS"the next day she sais she like's him know and they had a conversation about how they both liked eachother and they will go out now.What happened 2 our vow???It's not that important 2 me but i can't trust her anymore,should i temind her,or let her have this fling that will end up exactly how it happened with her old boyfriend who got tired of her and then didn't break up with her and started making out with other grlz!!!!!This is the exact same kinda guy,and she thinks i'm being dumb saying that kind of stuff,i care about her don't want it 2 be like this!!!!Please HELP!!!!
2006-10-13 13:15:59 · 6 answers · asked by cutie-kiwi_12 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I think the vow was a mistake, but so was breaking it. If her friendship is important to you, talk to her about it. Don't throw her away because of one mistake.
2006-10-13 13:17:32 · answer #1 · answered by gadalian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you don't want her to go out with any guys to get her heart broken then you should just tell that you care for and you don't want her to get hurt. Then remind her about her vow that you and her made after she broke up with her x boyfriend. Tell her that you really don't want to see her get hurt again because it's going to be the same pain she had with her x boyfriend.
2006-10-13 20:42:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just give it up....if she wants to get hurt by this guy the same way she did with the other guy, then thats her problem..as much as you may care about her you have to let her experience it again and then maybe she'll start coming around to what you have been telling her...because trust me, if you try too hard shes gonna think that maybe you're jealous...so shes just gonna have to find out the hard way that the guys a jerk and you were right...but its better for your friendship if you keep it to yourself
2006-10-13 20:19:01 · answer #3 · answered by seventy seven 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tak to her about it,at least give her a chance
2006-10-13 20:30:17 · answer #4 · answered by flexduty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
emotion...feelings are like summer for you...comes and goes...Do you really care abt that? you could be on her place..no wounder may be your friend could ask the same question abt you...
2006-10-13 20:19:41 · answer #5 · answered by fake_bullets 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she cant help it she found someone she didnt mean to break you two promise
2006-10-13 20:19:56 · answer #6 · answered by mz.thang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋