Is it time to move on if the bedroom, is only used for sleeping, for over 6 years?

Question

And there is no conversation? No interaction, except bills, and food, and daily stuff?

Answer 1

Try asking your husband why there is no "fun" activities going on in your marriage. There may be something bothering him that you do not know about that is affecting how he interacts with you. If that doesnt work, try seeking the help of a professional therapist, if you are still in love with your husband, it is worth it to try.

Answer 2

Why even share a home together, there's more affection between a man and his dayum dog than in your bedroom!!

Seriously though, do you guys talk besides the bills...seriously? If your still empowered to make things work I would say fight for your marriage. You made a commitment: For better or worst, richer or poorer,,,,,,,, fight IF you want it.

Just a thought though.........if your not giving him none, you know his needs are met elsewhere right? I mean let's be serious. 6 years, no sex...please!! Jesse Jackson, Bill Clinton, Bill Cosby all cheated, you think he ain't got a lil thang on the side taking care of his sexual needs?!!

Answer 3

Have you tried anything to get the spark back? Set up dates, did new and interesting things together?

Have you talked about the status of your relationship? The lack of intimacy and what might be causing it?

Have you tried to get counseling together about this?

If you've tried - honestly tried - all of this, and still nothing has changed, then sadly yes it's probably time to move on. If you HAVEN'T tried this, then DO! Try to save your relationship, find that initial spark you had. Even if you fail, at least you'll know you tried, and won't have to live with "what if I'd done..." for the rest of your life.

Answer 4

Move on, honey. My mother was in the same situation, but for eight years. She waited only until all of the joint bills were paid off, then they divorced 5 months after. I don't think I've ever seen my mother smile as much as she does now.

Good luck, and take care!

Answer 5

Maybe some counseling will uncover the reasons for your disappointment. Couples counseling is very successful if both parties are willing to attend and really work on the relationship. If you have been together that long, I would say it's worth a try.

Answer 6

i would not exactly say it is time to move on. maybe you need to put the excite back into the mix. try placing candles all over the house,{careful not to burn the place down} throw a blanket on the living room floor, have a picnic, after your done eating go run a nice hot bath and ask your mate to join you, give you mate a sponge bath, caress him/her. have some nice music playing go back into the living room and ask them to dance, don't even go into the bedroom, make love right there. the problem with alot of couples is they get into a routine add some spice to your relationship. have fun!! p.s. if you have kids send them to gramas!!

Answer 7

Uh yes, something is definetly wrong. We all get in a rut from time to time but 6 years ?? You need to have a very serious talk. Life is too short to live that way.

Answer 8

I can communicate with you on this subject of sleeping and no communication, and No Interaction.
Myself 8+ years.
To answer your question, I do not know. That is my honest answer.
You can email me if you want to communicate on this subject.
I just tell you that I wish you the Very Best Of Luck In The World, Whatever You Decide To Do.

Answer 9

OMG 6 YEARS!!!! I would have moved on after 6 months!!! And I love my hubby to death but in a relationship interaction is a necessity!! Yeah my dear move on and find happiness!! Could he be gay? Just wondering??

Answer 10

Yes