...you found a photo of a girl on your otherhalfs computer. You know he has friends online, but all male... yet he has this photo hidden away from other contents of friends photos...
2006-10-13 12:40:04 · 27 answers · asked by lonely as a cloud 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'd be very surprised, he's gay.
2006-10-13 12:44:04 · answer #1 · answered by Mr Glenn 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask him...first of all it's bad because it's hidden.. since you are married there should be no secrets! Especially those of that nature. Now, it doesn't mean that something is up with him and her..but just the fact that he felt the need to hide it from you is not good.. it lowers the trust level and will make you start to question him....
2006-10-13 12:49:16 · answer #2 · answered by Tru-Gem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him about it - But only if you really want to know the truth.
It could be real innocent or it could be he's upto something - either way for me the not knowing would be the problem - I find it easier to cope if I know exactly what I have to deal with.
I hope it all works out for you - Good Luck - and remember everything happens for a reason
Wishes n Dreams XxX
2006-10-13 12:45:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
mmmm..... that is hard becuase if u ask him straight out it might spark off a huge arguement and look like u dont trust him. but on the otherhand you still want or need to know who that other girl is. i think the best thing to do would be to ask him indirectly in a conversation over dinner. talk about hypothetical situations etc.... if he does figure it out that u know then ask him straight but also make him aware that u trust him etc.. and are just interested in who she is and why he has a picture of her, out of curosity. just try not 2 act jealous and remain calm it can be something completely innocent. hope that helps.
2006-10-13 12:46:32 · answer #4 · answered by spirit268 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No messing , confront him about it immediately , as If there is going to be a on line relationship with this girl, nip it in the bud NOW. Why hide it away , if it was me I would ask him this moment. Hope you keep your bf, if you love him don't let this go any further , and if he loves you he will explain and delete her from your lives . bye Lv Debbie J x
2006-10-13 12:49:59 · answer #5 · answered by bonniebella 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry but there is nothing innocent about having a hidden photo of another woman on his PC. unless you insanely jealous!!
2006-10-13 12:52:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be nothing but, yes, I would be suspicious. Maybe sit on it for a while and observe, watch e-mails, look around some more. Maybe, in time, confront him and watch his reaction very carefully. Best of luck to you.
2006-10-13 12:58:45 · answer #7 · answered by old_woman_84 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for a start I think I would feel a bit shi* for snooping but then if I had found out he sharing the love I would smack his chops right well!
2006-10-13 12:52:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would Print it half a Dozen times and Stick them up in the Bedroom,Kitchen,Toilet,Hallway, in the Garage and on the back of the Front Door..........I bet he doesn't even say a Word about them..............Men are Devious Creatures,
2006-10-13 12:49:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
use it as your wallpaper on your pc then go online while he is sat next to you holding a hot cup of tea and say, what's going on here? Now who could that be? His reaction should tell you if you have something to worry about.
2006-10-17 03:10:38 · answer #10 · answered by Valli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop snooping and looking for things that are probably not there ive linked on to things and down loaded things i didnt even realise i had so dont jump the gun find out first other wise you could destroy all thats sacred to you
2006-10-13 12:46:55 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋