my bf and i have been together for 1yr. Im the 1st grl that hes had intercourse with. and when we have oral or intercourse he doesnt *** at all. ( he can only make himself *** by taking care of himself). what can i do? i mean i might not be so good at giving oral... but even during sex he doesnt come. and i dnt know what to do.. i like him,.. and he likes me too. and he never showes that it bothers him. but i wanna make him happy because i wannabe with him for the rest of my life. ( by the way hes not my first.. and my ex did come after sex) . anways i know this may seem funny and weird.. but please can someone try to help me?
2006-10-13 12:26:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
He's probably been masturbating so long, that his body is having a hard time trying to figure out how to come by intercourse or oral. This might be a huge adjustment for him, but I've never heard a problem like this from a guy. Have you talked to him about this? Because you should. Tell him "I've noticed that the only time you come is when you masturbate. I would really like it if you could come when we have sex. Is there anything I can do to help you?" He should know his body well enough to know what turns him on. And obviously masturbating turns him on so much, that it's the only way he can come. Again, I think his body just may be used to it. Not sure if there is anything you can do, but ask him for some suggestions.
2006-10-13 12:34:36 · answer #1 · answered by melcar12345 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Have you've spoken to him about it??? I mean you can't be shy talking about it, your already doing it!
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2006-10-13 19:30:09 · answer #2 · answered by TrixR4KidZ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with melcar12345
Carpe Diem!
2006-10-13 22:34:41 · answer #3 · answered by afrodyzyak 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be gay are he might be scared ask him and see what he says because if he can get himself off maybe he's used to his hand
2006-10-13 19:33:08 · answer #4 · answered by mz.thang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe your not the first girl he had intercourse with, maybe he lied
2006-10-13 19:39:08 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
marry him Maya M.
be happy then.
2006-10-13 19:29:05 · answer #6 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he is nervouse, since you are his first, it may take some time .
2006-10-13 19:33:38 · answer #7 · answered by crazylarry88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
try anal, its tighter and should give more friction=pleasure=senstion= a possible orgasm
2006-10-13 19:31:05 · answer #8 · answered by Daniel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are just not compatible
2006-10-13 19:29:13 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋