rage, fear, pain, unexplainable sorrow, doubt, all towards this one guy. is this really hate that im feeling?
2006-10-13 12:25:53 · 8 answers · asked by BLAH! 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
pure confusion.
2006-10-13 12:27:31 · answer #1 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its what love turns into when it has been rejected.
It is normal.
It will take a while though, for you to be able to learn from it. Focus on getting rid of these feelings because you will not be free until you do.
Take it one day at a time. Keep your head high. Vow to not let this set back take you down. When you begin to think of him, re-channel your thoughts to something pleasant or funny. Don't let yourself bathe in self pity. Get a good book or a new hobby.
Remember...to come out on top you have to loose all those before mentioned emotions. When you've done that you will be twice as good as you were before...and much wiser.
If this is not a romance type relationship, all the elements still apply.
2006-10-13 19:42:23 · answer #2 · answered by Robere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is only the reason why you hate him. If he abused you in anyway, then I understand. If he just cheated on you or lied to you. Then I would say you are young and you will heal. I was hurt by a guy when I was 19 and he was my first. I felt at the time I hated him and after a year or so I totally thought he was a loser. And a few more years..... he was a big joke to me. And I would cringe everytime he came near me when I would be at my best friends house. So all in all it depends on why and how you think you hate him.
2006-10-13 19:30:14 · answer #3 · answered by djzlyric 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like it. But the important thing is do you know why you hate this person so much. Hatred takes a lot of energy, especially it will make you unhappy and sad. If this person didn't treat you well, or have hurted you in the past, you may hate this person,but you are also exerting a lot of energy for this person, who didn't care about you in the first place. The best way to not let this person hurt you anymore is simply by forgeting about it, and not even focus or spend any of your precious energy on this person anymore, becauese they were not good to you.
2006-10-13 19:29:42 · answer #4 · answered by madaline 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1 guy? Wow!
Carpe Diem!
2006-10-13 22:34:53 · answer #5 · answered by afrodyzyak 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could b but u need 2 ask ur self y??? y him?
2006-10-13 19:30:49 · answer #6 · answered by MoOn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-10-13 19:28:38 · answer #7 · answered by . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope lust
2006-10-13 19:27:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋