2006-10-13 12:16:37 · 17 answers · asked by ? 2 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
Realize that there is someone out there that will ask this same question if you do. Someone else is very close to you and they would miss you if you were gone. Think about the people who depend on you for anything and everything. Think about the last child that smiled at you or the last hug you received. There is always someone who would be devastated if you took your own life. Never forget that sometimes people admire you that you don't even know exist. Think about about what may lie beneath the surface, all that you could be, all that you are.
Chin up even though it's tough right now. : (
2006-10-13 12:28:57 · answer #1 · answered by spirit filled 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, remember that you are not responsible in any way, shape, or form.
Second cherish the memories you have of these people and feel sorrow that their pain and anger was more than they knew how to handle.
Suicide is hardest on those left behind. Just take it one day at a time and the hurt will gradually subside. Keep busy with things that you enjoy. Look for the good things that surround you.
2006-10-13 12:23:41 · answer #2 · answered by m15 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no best way.Every one is different,handle their emotions differently,view things differently,and find different ways to help heal themselves of pain,after the lose of a person,I have lost close loved ones to suicide,and it's some thing that you truly never get over ,one thing that has worked for me is that you have to just accept accept within your heart, that some times there are going to be questions concerning suicide,for instance,what were their last thoughts,and if you could speak to them right now,do they regret what they did,will never be answered.once you truly with in your heart accept this,and for some this is a very hard thing to do,you will find that you can begin to heal the pain that you feel on the inside.My Dad took his own life 3 years ago this October 24th,and I still have times where I find it hard.But with time that raw pain that cuts like a knife,gets less and less with time .Inside of focusing on all the negative things,you really need to think of all the positive things that your loved ones brought into your life,no matter how big or small.I really do hope that you that you find the path that leads you to healing yourself of the pain you feel very soon.best of luck with every thing.take care.
2006-10-13 12:53:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry that happened, it must be very hard for you. First pray for strength from God to get you through these hard times, and I would definitley keep your life active. Don't overdue it,but live llife to it's fullest. Always remember that there was nothing you could have done. Sometimes no matter how close we are we can never save certain people, they make their own choices. Good luck to you, never give up, and God bless.
2006-10-13 12:21:46 · answer #4 · answered by Phoebe 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The memories you had.
Think about something that made you smile if you get depressed, like that one thing that person did. Just because their lives are over doesnt mean yours is, you still have a lot to live for, if you think not, then ask your family, or make something to live for.
:D it will get better, trust me, I've lost two people who were close to me, it hurts but you will survive.
2006-10-13 12:23:53 · answer #5 · answered by bludyone 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know what it is like to lose someone to suicide. My brother commited suicide last year.The best way for me to keep on living is because I know that my brother would want me to go on. I also pray to God to bring me peace and to help me get on with me life. You just have to tell yourself that your life is not over. Think of someone or something that makes life worth living. Also think to yourself, you know what it is like to lose someone to suicide and you know what it feels like, would you want to put someone else through that? If the answer to that is no, then that will help you to keep on living.
2006-10-13 12:23:01 · answer #6 · answered by boonslilsis 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Think positive of yourself. Learn to live for today and enjoy life. I have been there. Two of my favorite neighbors committed suicide it was terrible, but I think of them, and have good memories of them.
2006-10-13 13:57:37 · answer #7 · answered by Lynn M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the best way is to keep on going with your life,and just know that suicide is permanent answer to a non permanent problem.i have lost many people that were very close to me
2006-10-13 12:27:02 · answer #8 · answered by salem 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My heart goes out to you and I shall remember you in my prayers.
Try to focus on the joy they brought in your life, and remember them as they were, not how they ended their life. Try the aid of friends and do things that you enjoyed in the past. If things get too difficult, do not hesitate to go to counseling. always keep in mind that time really is a healer, even though you might not feel it is right now.
2006-10-13 12:24:06 · answer #9 · answered by RY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
remeber they are at peace, what ever there pain was it must have been horrific, the worst about suicide is the guilt of those left behind, it alot of -what if-should have I seen it-could I have pervented it, just know the tragic death of the two is to mourned and the remember with love
2006-10-13 12:28:19 · answer #10 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋