This woman I'm presently dating keeps saying thank you every time we have sex. I don't see the point. Any man has similar experience? Or any girls say it?
Do I say "thank you" in return?
2006-10-13 11:54:49 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, from the answers received so far, a number of you think it's weird, but looks like quite a few do say it. Let's wait for more responses.
2006-10-13 12:11:57 · update #1
its just her way of saying it was good and that she appreciates the way you treat her. I am sure she doesnt mean it as she might say thankyou for a cup of tea for instance! She certainly sees you are the strong one in proceedings but there is nothing wrong with that. Take it as a compliment. You dont need to say thankyou back - it is not a formal occasion.
2006-10-13 12:02:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
My point of view is a maybe u are a bomb in sex and she always says thank you becoz of all e men which she has been having sex with u are e best but to me its sounds weird.u just have to ask her why and dont say thank u in return.
2006-10-13 14:26:09 · answer #2 · answered by twisted 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are the best she has ever had and she is thanking you for the experience of a lifetime.
Don't say thank you back.
It's weird that she says that.
2006-10-13 11:57:44 · answer #3 · answered by Just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man I feel weird now, years ago when I first got married my wife and I started saying it to each other after sex, if she had had an orgasm she would say thank you back, if she had not she would say you're welcome. I strived for the thank yous but we can only do what we can do.
2006-10-13 15:30:38 · answer #4 · answered by medic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its not.... its weird!! sorry mate but she either isn't enjoying it or she isn't being fulfilled...
or maybe its more manners.. you know, like when you get that crappy motto jumper from you great aunt for christmas, you hate it, but smile sweetly and say thank you anyway and wear it under duress when you see her...
talk to her.. ask her to tell you wot to do.. try a bit of role play... spice it up abit....
if you try that and things get better, you'll get more than a "thank you"
2006-10-13 12:54:21 · answer #5 · answered by Nutty Nelly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
is she a woman who would have difficulty attracting men? if so then maybe she is genuinely grateful that you have provided sex. Alternatively, it may be that you have done a good job and satisfied her more than she expected, in which case, you must be a good sha g, or maybe she really feels connection/chemistry with you. or maybe she is saying it to try + make u feel good
2006-10-13 13:29:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think simply saying ' you were wonderful' and either leaving if you lied, or going for number 5 shag in one night if true, is enough.
Only say thank you if leaving, and already at the door.
A great sex life is good, but not everyone is comfortable with it.
Be tender whatever happens.
Thank you!!
2006-10-13 12:03:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I have had that experience before.. and I think it's a girl thing. I never said it back. But as long as I was making her say "thank you" made me feel good and obliged her as often as I could.
2006-10-13 12:00:53 · answer #8 · answered by mr.longshot 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Strange thing to say perhaps shes just trying to say that was so darn good but she wants to remain polite and think you will know what she means.
2006-10-14 01:10:51 · answer #9 · answered by candyfloss 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why on earth would you say thank you. do you get paid for sleeping with her. that would be the only reason she would have to thank , you know like you were performing a service. maybe you should ask for payment in future
2006-10-13 13:51:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋