2006-10-13 11:53:37 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
he's not a loser if he's got someone like you
2006-10-13 11:56:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
What do you see in him? Isn't that more important than whether he's popular with others?
In what sense is he considered a loser in the eyes of your friends? What values do you look for in a person?
You also need to consider the implications if your b/f is very popular.
2006-10-13 12:03:14 · answer #2 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are letting other people choose your boyfriend..maybe he is not the one that's the loser...but that's just my off the cuff opinion.
To be more elaborate, you have to come to some decisions in life all by yourself. I am sure that there are a lot of "Cool" girls who are just kicking themselves for not paying more attention to Bill Gates. You never know about people, and it's best to give people a chance, and respond to them based on how they treat you, not on what other people think.
2006-10-13 12:02:39 · answer #3 · answered by Joe 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...you shouldnt worry about what other people think..i used to be shy, not to popular, but i was always cute...lol..i guess...but now...im the popular one..and not shy....so as you begin to mature as an adult...those type of issues wont matter anymore...so if u love him...stick by him...cuz real love is HARD to find...especially if u base it on a CONDITION.....popular or not..then it'll be based on a condition.....not real love...
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2006-10-13 12:01:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, if you love this guy, then why should it matter if he's not popular??!!??
I have the same problem except my bf is kinda rednecky and i'm kinda punkish. if its your friends who dissaprove, then give them time. it goes the same for his friends. I take it you are either in JR. high or high school. most ppl wish this popular and unpopular thing would go away.....so dont keep it alive!!!
If you let this unpopular thing get to you then you may lose him!!
-Good luck
2006-10-13 12:19:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmmm im not quite sure what you need help with. Its simple you love you boyfriend. but hes thought of a loser. If hes goin out with you doensnt that make him cool. and anyways what does it matter what other people think of your boyfriend. hes YOUR boyfriend not theirs all that SHOULD matter is what you think of him. not what everyone else thinks of him.
2006-10-13 11:57:44 · answer #6 · answered by D21 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't worry about what other people think. The only thing that you should worry about is how he makes you feel. Don't let other people cloud your vision or your judgment. You don't need help...you need to breathe and focus on the two of you. To heck with other people, they aren't the ones who are going to make you feel special and cherished. Enjoy him.
2006-10-13 11:57:25 · answer #7 · answered by blackwidow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jo
If you love him stick with him no matter what people may say who cares for your not dating your friends your dating him unless the guy is beating you up or taking drugs then stick with him
2006-10-13 11:55:39 · answer #8 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
who cares who is popular or not. If you like him all that just doesn't matter hun. When you get older being popular is not a thing that matters anymore.
2006-10-13 11:55:16 · answer #9 · answered by day dreamin baby 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that probely the hardest part. but if u are already going out with him then u have already proved u don't care if people think he is a lsoer. mostly likely he will stay in ur life longer. but if it realy bugs u should get out of it or just hid it i mean its ur busness not theirs.
2006-10-13 11:57:05 · answer #10 · answered by punk girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you love him and mean that you really love him then to hell with what others think.. Stop all of the labeling of people.
2006-10-13 11:55:55 · answer #11 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋