My wife and I had a fight over a misunderstanding or miscomunication. My 8 yr. son is always coming out of the shower and leaving puddles of water on the floor. I'd asked reaptedly dry himself off before stepping out. I broght the issue to my wife assuming she would follow up on it, she didn't and that's when we went at it. Any help would be appreciated.
2006-10-13 11:50:57 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Obviously it didn't seem like that big of a deal to her. Being a mother myself, I have bigger issues to worry about than a puddle on the floor. Maybe she decided to pick her battles and that isnt one of them. I'm curious, are your bathroom floors "dry clean only"? Seriously. Don't make THAT big of a deal about it. Hand him a towel and make him clean it. A few times of that and he will remember. In the mean time suck it up, be apologetic, let her know you appreciate her. Then have some really good make up sex.
2006-10-13 12:05:42 · answer #1 · answered by tiredinaz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-07 17:52:21 · answer #2 · answered by Constance 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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My wife and I had a fight over a misunderstanding or miscomunication. My 8 yr. son is always coming out of the shower and leaving puddles of water on the floor. I'd asked reaptedly dry himself off before stepping out. I broght the issue to my wife assuming she would follow up on it, she...
2015-08-06 20:04:36 · answer #3 · answered by Donalt 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First apologize to her, tell her you should have been the one to tell your son to dry off before getting out. Tell her that you feel bad that such a simple thing got out of hand, and that you are going to take responsiblity for your part of the argument. Then ask her to go out to eat tomorrow night with you, get a babysitter for the kids, and you too go out by yourselves. If a puddle on the floor brings on this kind of fight, I think you both need a night out. Stress and being tried makes little things get blowed out of whack.
So, get off the computer, and go say you are sorry, and ask her out. Remember just the two of you, if you don't do nothing but go get a hamburger...You definietly need some alone time. So what are you waiting for...remember a hug is nice, a kiss even better, and make up sex is the greatest.....
God bless us all..............
2006-10-13 12:13:41 · answer #4 · answered by totallylost 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well in my country people often say that the make up after a fight is the sweetest thing that ever exists.At this question in order to find a suitable answer is not to give you a specific one.The only thing you have to do is to let your imagination fly.Don't keep anger over her. You have to be the one who makes the first step.Explain her nicely the reasons you told her what you said and don't forget, yopu can catch more flyes with honey than vinnegar.
2006-10-13 12:36:56 · answer #5 · answered by DUKE OF SEGOREAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Honey, can I...?"
"Yes, dear..."
"Sweetie, I was thinking of you and I did/bought/brought..."
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Wow...puddles on the floor was strong? I wonder what else happened...did you use strong language at her or was there a yelling match? Whatever the issue, go to her and let her know that you're sorry the fight happened. Talk to her this time about how you hope to avoid this situation in the future, but that you don't ever want to disrespect her role in the house or disregard her feelings. Be honest. That usually works. If not...suck up!
2006-10-13 11:54:27 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her time to cool down. Get flowers and a nice card and tell her that you are sorry. Then remind yourself if fighting over puddles of water in the bathroom is worth losing your wife over. If the answer is no, next time throw a towel down, talk to your son yourself, and remind yourself you could have bigger problems then a wet floor, like divorce.
2006-10-13 12:22:36 · answer #7 · answered by justamama5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when talking with her use I or put Ur self In my place how would u feel.
Let me tell u something about me not say that this is Ur case.
My husband is not the father of my kids and I get real touchy bout my kids not only with him, but with they real dad as well.
Go to her and apologize and and talk about it, don't fly off the handled and even start a reward system with Ur son that works good with my boys I have 3 2,5,10.
2006-10-13 13:06:50 · answer #8 · answered by msgris2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply send her a personal card written by you or email showing your feeling of forgiveness then set the mood for a night alone to rekindle the love that is priceless.
Love is unconditional anything coming for the heart is a priceless, rare and written in a private diary for two.
Best Wishes...
2006-10-13 11:58:31 · answer #9 · answered by M M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just apologise to her for blowing your top at her, and not taking responsibility in handling your child yourself. Why must you push the issue to your wife?
The best solution when such things happen in the family is to discuss with your wife the best way to handle your son. Once you agree on a course of action, both of you can then follow up on him, depending on who catches him doing it!
2006-10-13 12:14:35 · answer #10 · answered by G.T. L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋