My wife is going to travel overseas and her companion is going to be a coworker well known for being drunk and partying all the time.
She wants to take her bikini with her just in case there is a nice pool in the hotel. She told me that there is nothing wrong and that this is very normal in the american culture. Should I trust her? Is this normal as she said? I would appreciatte your oppinion.
2006-10-13 11:43:17 · 11 answers · asked by Weyguy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Lets say you tell her no !!! You cannot take your bikini with you... do you honestly think she won't buy another swim suit when she gets over there? If she wants to swim or lounge by the pool she has a right to whether you are there or not. Your concerns about her hanging out with a co-worker whose behavior you don't approve of sounds legitimate. But your wife is an adult and if she's given you no reason to mistrust her before I suggest you tell her of her concerns. At least then she can try to reassure you that she'll be faith full to you and perhaps take a snapshot of herself having fun without you telling you she can't wait to be back in your arms again! It all boils down to you trusting her.
2006-10-13 12:02:28 · answer #1 · answered by Brains & Beauty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I read what you said of course it is normal for a woman to take her bikini with her on a trip. When you are holiday it is normal to relax by the pool or go in for a swim on the beach. I think you should trust your wife. What is love with out trust. If you don't trust your partner, than I don't think you should be with that person. This answer is coming from a man, just so you will know.
2006-10-13 12:15:04 · answer #2 · answered by Quency 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say it's October. It's already snowing in some states. She doesnt have to go swimming and if she did, she doesnt have to wear a bikini. Is there also a hot tub at this hotel where they are staying? If it was my wife, i wouldnt be happy about this!!
2006-10-13 11:50:44 · answer #3 · answered by Freaked out 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, trust your wife. Many American hotels even have indoor pools & spas, but don't worry. I am sure your wife is faithful.
2006-10-13 11:48:54 · answer #4 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IS this a business trip....why are you not going with her? I say are you feeling insecure and jealous? Or have you notice changes in her that might lead you to believe she is not trustworthy? You know your wife best, trust her to respect and honor her vows to you. Let her know that you love her, women don't like insecure, possessive men.
2006-10-13 12:46:11 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Trust her! When I travel by myself as a man, I always take swimming shorts, and whatever I feel like taking with me.
Why not a lady taking whatever she wants to take?
2006-10-13 11:59:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its normal. If she would be taking mini skirts and sexy underwear I would worry though. Dont read too much into it. Just let her be. You are too jaelous, man
2006-10-13 12:10:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are they booked in the same room? If not, you've got nothing to worry about.
2006-10-13 11:50:53 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you have some serious insecurity problems in your relationship don't you?
2006-10-13 11:47:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust her, if she screws up then say goodbye.
2006-10-13 11:47:19 · answer #10 · answered by TK 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋