my man of 4yrs cheated on me but he swears that he did'nt the girl told me everything how he lay it down what he says everything and he still denys it we broke up on valentines day he began living with the girl then we got back together in april and are still together he told me he sleep with 1 girl when we broke up but it wasn't the one he was living with should i believe him i just can't believe someone knows that much about how you handle yours and not have experienced it
2006-10-13 11:01:02 · 18 answers · asked by DAWN M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
All men are dirty, worthless liars, but at least we can use punctuation.
2006-10-13 11:02:48 · answer #1 · answered by robtheman 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say get away from this guy, start a fresh with someone new.. once a cheater, always a cheater...sorry!...But you sound like a nice girl, you can do better than a guy that cheats on you.. any girl can!!..If you can't trust him, then there's something wrong in the relationship for starters anyway..so maybe, find a new guy to treat you how you should be.. or if not, follow your instincts.. you think hes cheating.. find out, sneak around or wteva, but you may feel bad if he is telling the truth.. XX Good Luck, sorry XX
2006-10-13 11:05:40 · answer #2 · answered by Jemma P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I am understand your question correctly he cheated on you after you broke up while he was living with someone else. If this is the case, the way I see it....if he "cheated" after you broke up...how is it cheating ? If you were apart who he slept with is none of your business.
However, if I am misunderstanding your question and he cheated when you were together, then yes he's a rat for not fessing up to his mistake and I would tell him to hit the bricks and find himself a new gullible woman or one that is interested in having an open relationship.
2006-10-13 11:13:47 · answer #3 · answered by ne_patriots2005 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its because he wants to try so hard to convince himself. But my fiance lied about his kids, and still denied he had two more. Men want to see how much of a dumb *** girls are as to believe that they didnt. And they think they could get away with it.
2006-10-13 11:06:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They still lie because they don't wanna look like a liar in your eyes. They will never admit when they're wrong. It makes them feel like they're less of a man.
2006-10-13 11:07:33 · answer #5 · answered by TRULEY MADLY DEEPLEY 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a man he will never admit he is wrong girl . If you love him and can 4give him then do so w/o throwing it in his face all the time , if you gotta dump him then do so, but if you are looking for him to say sorry or even admit it he will never do it
2006-10-13 11:03:15 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ Army Wife ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because women always can be missleaded to the wrong clue. The proof you have is just a 'distractor' from the reality.
2006-10-13 11:03:18 · answer #7 · answered by odacrem69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though men are basically stupid, they believe they are smarter than women and can fool us.
In my opinion, anyone who cheats once is a liar.
2006-10-13 11:03:46 · answer #8 · answered by poizon_ivy79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men have a built in deceptive mechanism. They were born to lie. It hurts their ego when you have proof that they have lied to you.
2006-10-13 11:07:04 · answer #9 · answered by Special K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hahsaha. you serious... you're considering believing him? heed the word COWARDNESS.
follow your gut, you're right when you use your heart and your head together. you know exactly what's been going on. stop letting him play you for a fool
2006-10-13 11:05:56 · answer #10 · answered by carlaerickson 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would the girl tell you all about it? She may have been lying to get him in trouble...some type of revenge...Women can be spiteful when angry.
2006-10-13 11:07:16 · answer #11 · answered by flashpro 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋