I think I am in love with my best friend! But very complicated - he was an illegal immigrant (I don't want a debate about that - he is fully legal now and full tax-payer) whom my parents would never approve of, he is in an arranged marriage, which was mutual for visa reasons but wife has turned possessive and he has to stay with her for another year. I thinks he loves me too, but If he weren't with her, I don't think I could be with him, we live in different worlds, but we seem to live for eachother and behave as if in relationship in all aspects except from sex, which for two pence I think would change. I can't imagine being without him as a friend or otherwise, but how do I move on with my life?
2006-10-13 10:52:35 · 8 answers · asked by Contrary Mary 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Soory should have clarified - we did try!! Before the marraige took place, but only just met and did not have feelings then, stayed friends and feelings started over last year or so.
2006-10-13 11:02:37 · update #1
sorry to say but you need to find someone for yourself you don't even know if he loves you!play the Field you can always retry if it doesn't work out
2006-10-13 11:33:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay away, find someone of your own to love.
don't break someone elses marriage up to satisfy your own desires, a similar thing happened to me and it caused me years of pain.
moving on is hard, but sometimes it is the only road you must take.
2006-10-13 11:34:19 · answer #2 · answered by andylefty 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your life, your decision!
It's too short to worry about what other people think!
As far as sex goes, Try Before You Buy! ;)
2006-10-13 10:56:40 · answer #3 · answered by meandyouagainsttheworldnow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
HE IS MARRIED STAY CLEAR OR HIM UN TILL HE IS SINGLE,THEN SEE IF YOU STILL FEEL THE SAME WAY.HOW DO YOU KNOW HIS WIFE IS BEING POSSESSIVE,DO YOU KNOW HER..?...OR IS THAT WHAT HE IS TELLING YOU.......I THINK YOUR BEING NAIVE........HE MARRIED FOR A VISA...WHAT HAPPENED TO REAL LOVE THESE DAYS..WHAT MAKES YOU THINK HIS PARENTS WOULD APPROVE OF YOU....I WONDER..GUD LUK.
2006-10-13 13:52:52 · answer #4 · answered by chic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey for two pence can i have a go too !
2006-10-13 22:11:07 · answer #5 · answered by nicemanvery 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
True love will find a way...
2006-10-13 11:02:23 · answer #6 · answered by Fizz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run away!
2006-10-13 11:27:16 · answer #7 · answered by Jennifer M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should deside on your own
2006-10-13 11:01:17 · answer #8 · answered by Darkest_Twilight 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋