hes mean to me (rarely) and other ppl but when hes mad at me he says mean things, i stopped liking him for a little bit but now i like him again and i cant stop, even when hes mean to me and other people
so why does i still likehim i cant get over him
2006-10-13 10:32:26 · 20 answers · asked by Sweet_Hottie 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
to everyone that sed dont go for a boy thatsmean to me he isnt only when hes mad at me and hes 1 of those ppl who taks out his anger out at the world so he isnt really mean to me or verbally abusive
2006-10-13 10:44:20 · update #1
Because you're young and immature. I don't mean to be rude, but it's true. You are going through an early crush, and love interest and it's hard to get over. You just need to step outside of the situation and look at the damage these words are causing. It's not a good thing.
2006-10-13 10:34:45 · answer #1 · answered by Drewood 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is mean to you and other people than you shouldn't date him. If you ever get married he could end up abbusing you. You may still have a thing for him because you see a thrill of liking a dangerous apperance kinda guy which we all date one time in our life for the thrill. But if you open your eyes you might see that there are really nice guys out there that could be the one. So don't stay in the back corner waiting for this boy to step up! Take some action
2006-10-13 10:44:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may still like or love him, but that doesn't mean that you should - or need to be - with him. When you feel like you do, try to remember how you felt when he was mean and treated you poorly. We all have a tendency to miss a person when a relationship ends - even a really bad one - because we get focused on remembering the good things that the person did or how good they made us feel at times, but the truth is that we split with them for a reason and that reason still exists. Get involved with new friends and when you miss him busy yourself with something else. If your still in your teens then you need to break the pattern now of allowing people to treat you poorly and still be with you. Your life will be better and happier if you can do that. Good luck!
2006-10-13 10:36:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
b/c you like the abuse. Are you're parent verbally abusive to you? Sometimes we get into relationships b/c it mimics the relationship you have with your parents....it's what you're use too.....it's the first sense of love you gave and received. So if the way your parents showed you love was by yelling at you or being mean to you.....then most likely you will find a b/f that does the same b/c it familiar too you.
2006-10-13 10:35:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than Likely you are person who is dependent on attention (no in a bad way), so you gravitate towards the few people who will give it to you, i recomend that you try and look for someone who is nicer, and will pay a better quality of attention to you.
2006-10-13 10:35:44 · answer #5 · answered by saxophone_god21 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stupidity comes to mind right off the top. I was stupid over someone for a long time and eventually she made someone else miserable and ruined the life of her kids before killing herself. Even if it hurts, bail out.
2006-10-13 10:35:35 · answer #6 · answered by iknowtruthismine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you love someone you love that person with your heart, there are three types of love thay are like last and love itself.
1. like you love someone when you see that person for the 1st time but with a week later you sime not wonting to see him and that is like.
2.last you love the person, but after sex you loos intrest in him.
3. and with love, wtat ever you do, were ever you go, you can never stoping love your true LOVE.
2006-10-13 12:24:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
love can hurt. i have the same prob i still love my x after all he has said and done to me over the past 3 years i think its just a matter of time well thats what people say to me anyway.. good luck
2006-10-13 10:38:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because sometimes women can be self destructive and we are attractive to people who don't want us.
Believe me you will be better off without him, find someone else who is going to treat you like you deserve.
2006-10-13 10:41:31 · answer #9 · answered by MsM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't love him, you are infatuated with him. Just stay away for awhile, concentrate on other things and you will forget about him. You don't want someone who is mean to you. Once they start, it only gets worse.
2006-10-13 10:34:25 · answer #10 · answered by peachy4995 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋