2006-10-13 10:30:46 · 9 answers · asked by raniqua j 1 in Beauty & Style ➔ Fashion & Accessories
Make yourself talk to people. Start small until you get used to it. It doesn't have to be anything major, just a few sentences asking people about their day, then move on to someone or something else. Try talking to the clerks at the store when you are buying food, or the clerks at the clothing store, and ask them about their day, in order to get used to the idea of talking to strangers.
2006-10-13 10:34:52 · answer #1 · answered by Randy G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey its all good, I used to be realllly SHY but not anymore. You wanna know how I managed to overcome the shyness?
CONFIDENCE, everyone has it in them. I guess, when I finally realized I was shy I got tired of it and out of the blue I started to greet everyone at the college every morning, asked how their day was, complimented their attire, and best of all I asked for their opinions on alot of different topics, and they get all excited because people like to express themselves, people like to share ideas. I'm not so shy anymore and if I can do it, I'm pretty sure you can too. Hope my advice was a little helpful, hope all is flourished and good luck.
2006-10-13 10:52:48 · answer #2 · answered by val_nativeg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then you have to change a little bit these aspects of your character. you have to find the inner strength that is hidden inside you.
what would you do if the guy you have a crash on met a very talkative and outgoing girl? think about it.
change you haircut and buy some new clothes, this will give you confidence, you will see.
If you change your appearance you will feel the need to show it off and this will make more outgoing.
i am sure.
Also try to be around people you feel comfortable with, so you can be more talkative.
Go and claim life or else someone else will do it!
2006-10-13 10:39:33 · answer #3 · answered by Lina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I rarely talk, people get so offended by it, and I rarely smile. I wouldn't worry about it, but when I want to talk and am afraid, I just tell myself "you only live once, in a few years you'll be in college and away from people" and I just talk. It depends, I guess when someone says "omg your so quiet!!" just say "would you like me to be loud and annoying? because I can" and then see what happens from their, or comment people on their clothes and shoes and where they got them etc. Don't worry about it when people yell at you to talk or smile, just mumble a curse word and it's all good =) you're not alone!!
2006-10-13 10:34:58 · answer #4 · answered by fuzzy_fruitcake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im Shy too! If You get a good answer, tell me about it too!!! lol Good Luck!!
2006-10-13 10:38:19 · answer #5 · answered by Angel Monkey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You overcome shynss by challenging it.
2006-10-13 10:35:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's okay, not everyone has to be the life of the party, doesn't mean anything is wrong with you....
2006-10-13 10:44:40 · answer #7 · answered by renee 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u don't talk u just answered that
2006-10-13 10:33:07 · answer #8 · answered by Alexia 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
push yourself to be outgoing and outspoken. if you don't like it, then just don't talk. =]
2006-10-13 10:38:50 · answer #9 · answered by HOW BOUT THEM DAWGS♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋