I'll be eight weeks pregnant tomorrow and we have three daughters and I have nowhere to go. What can I do? We had a huge fight, he's been acting weird for a week now and then today he packed mine and the girls' things and said I needed to get out.
2006-10-13 10:26:34 · 23 answers · asked by justwondering 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
I'd call the cops, he can't kick you all out of your home with no where to go. I'm so sorry you're going through this, especially now of all times :( but he seems to be a total ***! The police should be able to get you back into your home, or at least help you with a place to go to for help. I just can't get over this, what kind of man does a thing like that...
I wish I had more advice for you and your babies, but no official in their right mind would allow your husband to continue on with this,
you have more rights than this...I really hope things work out, you get home and you and your girls are treated better. As for your hubby I'd drop him :( get financial aid, a good lawyer and sue his *** for alimony and child support.
I'm a mother of 2 and I'd probably lose my mind if my hubby did this, but for damn sure he'd pay the price for abondaning his family like that.!!
Good luck Hun...sending prayers and all the strength I can!!
Michelle
2006-10-13 10:40:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
WOW, there are alot of things you can do... 1st off he cant just kick you and 3 babys out in the street with nowhere to go. I dont know what state you livein but in NJ. the 1st thing to do is go to the court house and file custudy of your kidseven you baby. so he cant take them away since he puuled something heartliss.. He has been acting strange for a week now... I dont know what you mean by that. but is it possable that he is cheating? Or is he scared about having another baby? No matter what you can do alot. ajudge will make he pay for each child as I am sure you know.. My X and I it was bad.. so I know it is hard with kids its even harder... But here I am 10 years later and fine you can be too. Go to your local county services dept. they will help you right away in the case you have kids and another on the way....and no matter how much you love someone always rmember you can not change them or make them want you.. I wish I could help you more .. Please. keep me updated.. God Bless.
2006-10-13 10:46:40 · answer #2 · answered by Cherokee_kitty005 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not that upset to leave he should be the one getting his stuff and getting out you have the kids and pregnant with another.If anything he might be having an affair.That's crazy to be acting all weird for a week and then put your stuff out,yes he's getting some action from somewhere else.And if he was any kind of a man he wouldn't packed those girls things they would be with him,that's how you know he's up to no good.
2006-10-13 10:39:51 · answer #3 · answered by Sister Queen Mama 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you on the deed? The mortgage? If so, flip it around on him! Go back to the house, put his stuff on the front lawn and give him the message loud and clear that you're not going to take his crap. If he gets out of line, call the cops. What kind of person is he? How can anyone call themselves a man when he kicks his PREGNANT WIFE and three children out of the house??! It sounds like he needs some serious mental help. If you're not on the deed and are not entitled to the house, go to the police. They can help you find a place to go if you don't have any friends or relatives that can put you and your little ladies up for awhile.
Good luck to you.
2006-10-13 10:39:45 · answer #4 · answered by Bettie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No husband should ever kick his pregnant wife and little children out on the street. Call someone, the police, a shelter, someone needs to help you. That is just absolutely horrible! I don't care what his problem is. He has no right to dump his family out the door. He's the one that should go. You, as the mother, and now, sole caregiver, have more rights than anyone in this situation.
Please, honey, take care. I hope everything works out for you.
But right now, you need to worry about yourself and your children.
If he wants to talk and rectify the situation, tell him this can never happen again.
2006-10-13 10:47:35 · answer #5 · answered by deb 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Is there a woman's shelter you could go to?
You might want to call the police and see if they can do anything?
I don't know the law, so I am just guessing here, but if you are married and you own or rent your home together, then I don't see how he has the right to kick you out? He sounds like a bit of a nut, so please be careful whatever you do. Don' t put yourself at risk.
A women's shelter will definitely take you and your girls. My sister had to go to one once. Its a safe place.
2006-10-13 10:36:17 · answer #6 · answered by EmLa 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you believe that can not somehow mend things with him then first find a place for you and your daughters to stay then take him to court. He can't just throw his kids and pregnant wife out. I hope he has one he** of a job because child support for 4 and possibly spousal support depending on if you are working are going to cost him. Plus you will most likely get the house.
2006-10-13 13:49:31 · answer #7 · answered by Rita 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
OMG!! I really wish I knew what to tell you to do, but I don't! But that is so F'd up that he would do that!! What an ***!!! So, is there any family you could go to temporarily? Then once you have the girls safe, then maybe go change the locks on him and get you and the girls back in the house?!?! You might not want to do that, it's just a suggestion!! Stay safe w/ your girls! And also congrats on the new baby!!! :(
2006-10-13 10:40:01 · answer #8 · answered by MoMmY AlOrA 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he kicked u out how the heck are u able to muse a computer,?
Anyways go back and kick him out, if he says no call the police and have him removed or even get him to tell you his problem. You need the home for you and the kids and yourself and unborn baby, some men can be such JERKS
2006-10-13 11:15:47 · answer #9 · answered by whats up all 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to a women's shelter, they will help get you back on your feet. I am sorry this is happening to you. You will be ok. Focus on your kids and the baby, everything will be fine. You really don't need someone like that in your life at such a critical time. Think happy thoughts. Good luck.
2006-10-13 10:34:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋