I am a 13 year old teenager with only one thing i really want to do... I want to prove a point and be different. I have been gothic for about a year and a half or so and my parents know but they support me 120%. My problem is that some of the preps keep bothering me and one of them just won't quit asking me questions and it makes me feel like a bug under a microscope... i really hate her fu**ing guts and she knows that somewhat. I have told her to stop talking to me and to stay out of my life but she just keeps asking "Why do you hate me so much?" and i just don't have the courage to tell her the real reason why i hate her so. Should i just go and tell her straight up why, send her a message on myspace, or just keep it inside of me? i really need some help before i become suicidal...
2006-10-13 10:21:08 · 21 answers · asked by Kayla C 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Other - Society & Culture
I personally think that preps are just no good little bimbos that think that they are better than everyone, they even pick on the emo kids and the sk8ters at my school, you know how some sk8ter dudes were them girl pants? anyways the preps be saying you guys are queers if you try to fit your asses into girl pants. They cause so much drama, because they are the scum of this earth and they know it. Goths are awesome, and they should be excepted by everyone and not so misunderstood all the time. It's nothing to be suicidal over, it's just a phase that you go through. You just speak your mind and tell her. Good Luck!!!!! :D
2006-10-13 10:29:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You already stated that you want to be different. Being Gothic is a choice and it is a public display of what you want to be. You can't very well expect people not to notice and have an opinion about it. You can't make yourself so outlandish and then whine when you get crap about it. If all this person is doing is asking you questions, how do you feel such hatred?? You sound the one who is being mean. You seem to have all this "courage" to dress like a "freak" (which is what most people think of Goth as ) and yet you don't have the courage to back up what you supposedly are trying to prove. You said you wanted to prove a point, well WHAT is the point you are making??? People who want to stand out and be different from the rest of society, cannot then complain that they stand out are are different from society. All you said is that this person is "talking to you". Whats wrong with that????
2006-10-13 10:27:24 · answer #2 · answered by Coco 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi, I'm a gothic too, and even though I'm 27 I still have the same problem. Depending on how much you value her opinion, you could just try talking to her? You can just tell her that you don't want to be her friend and that she should leave you alone. I mean, you dont have to love everyone on this planet! If you really dont care about her opinion, just try to ignore her. In the end she'll probably find it boring. Just be who you want to be and as long as you feel good about yourself (and you even have your parents' support!) who cares about one person with a comment?
2006-10-13 10:26:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
lol, dont worry about her. Tell her the truth why you hate her...that is, because you're not interested in talking to her but shes like a pesty person that wont go away. And that you dont have to justify what you are doing to her.
Or, just reverse the questioning and question her as to why she is questioning you. WHY WHY WHY WHY.
On the other hand, dont you think its a waste of time just to point out something to other people? then you live just to contradict other people without finding your own independent liking? I mean, you'll still be not caring about what other people think but its less stressing. Plus, if you are looking to prove a point, dont expect people to just not do anything.
I am just another person so dont mind my chatter.
2006-10-13 10:25:31 · answer #4 · answered by leikevy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, hate is a worthless emotion. No good ever comes from it. As far as your nemesis is concerned, she's just having some fun at your expense. Get over it. Answer her when she asks you something. She'll eventually get tired of it. Especially if you answer her intelligently. If you're going to be truly different, you've got to get used to a little ridicule.
2006-10-13 10:27:05 · answer #5 · answered by Gene Rocks! 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
want to be different like all the other gothic's out there.
really? what's unique about looking like everybody else.
120% family support.
LOL are they the munsters?
13? Gawd what a world.when you're 16 the rest of the world will be so like so stupid!.
2006-10-13 10:24:41 · answer #6 · answered by cork 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Go to a magic trick shop,and get a blood capsule and keep it in your mouth.When she approaches you,and asks something,bite down on it and as the blood comes out of your mouth give her the honest answer,have fun,don`t keep it bottled up.
2006-10-13 10:25:43 · answer #7 · answered by Rich B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think that if you are comfortable with yourself try to ignore her if you are not doing this for attention and that you are being you that girl needs to accept it and ask her if she is not sure of herself this is your life not hers and acually why does she care so much i would try to be nice to her and then continue to be nice to her cause being mean to her she is just going to get more annoying to you so you just be you and pray for her it will come to pass but dont become suicidal thats not cool and what does gothic mean other then you wear black what does it really mean
2006-10-13 10:28:21 · answer #8 · answered by bananas 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's always best to get feelings out in the open. Not on myspace...that will come across as crazy. Since you are 13 I will leave it at that. Best of luck, my dear. Just be yourself. =)
2006-10-13 10:25:12 · answer #9 · answered by hvjhv 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
go up to the bit ch and tell her to leave u the fu ck alone then tell her that u hate her cuz she is a sl ut i would if i were in ur situation
2006-10-13 10:25:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋