My daughters husband is on a singles line saying he has no kids no wife and when they other lady caught on she called my daughter and told her that her husband said that she had lost her mind and that he's never been married.But she stil wants to give him a chance i say he wont change and she thinks he will what do i say to her to get her to relize he's gonna keep doing it.
2006-10-13 10:20:53 · 10 answers · asked by furby_lost 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
for youre info girly she asked me for help so if you want to be rude do it somewhere else when my child asks for help i will always be there no matter who thinks im wrong including you
2006-10-13 10:24:59 · update #1
The best predictor of future behavior is past behavior. You'll probably not change your daughter's mind but ask her what it is she receives from sticking by a person who disrespects her.
2006-10-13 10:28:55 · answer #1 · answered by DelK 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately there is nothing you can do or say at this time, the more you push the subject, the more you will push her away and more into his arms.
The only thing you can do is be there for her when she needs you, and she will need you. She will figure it out on her own and she will need your love and comfort.
In the mean time, all you can do is smile and be nice to him when he is around, even if you want to choke the S.O.B. every time you see him. Trust me, I know my daughter was with someone that I hated, he cheated on her time and time again, even when she was in the hospital having their daughter. She wised up and so will your daughter. Do not ruin the relationship you have with her because of that scum bag.
Good luck
2006-10-13 10:28:12 · answer #2 · answered by Joy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in keeping with own adventure (mine & friends, too) that's the tip of the iceburg. there is not any doubt he set up an account & there became 2way verbal exchange in touch. He keeps changing his tale. Did it on your birthday. And the vacations too? Very low. he's slithering up, attempting to cuddle you devoid of any good explaination or sense sorry approximately. He married you once you dated somebody else once you adult males have been nonetheless unmarried, so if he throws it on your face, tell him intense high quality attempt. people who throw issues in different's faces whilst they do some thing incorrect demonstrates a character illness (can no longer keep in mind the call even with the incontrovertible fact that). Giving him the chilly shoulder will purely artwork see you later. you will the two cave-in to him or he might desire to apply that as an excuse to proceed fishing for some "unusual". Ask him to describe ONE TIME purely what's up & you will settle for purely the one hundred% fact. not greater opportunities. now may be the time for finished disclosure from him: a quite a few month printout of his cellular telephone calls from the provider, all passwords for all money owed. or you are able to desire to objective the stealth mode first: positioned a sturdy keylogger on the laptop to work out the place he's going. it would additionally demonstrate any secret email accts, etc. Please be conscious that human beings like that don't exchange. The lowlife i'm divorcing became caught even after swearing on his father's soul, etc. He became found out later on asking actual women out. i did no longer stick around to verify to any extent further. That became sufficient for me. It sucks being unmarried back, even with the undeniable fact that it rather is a techniques greater advantageous than being with a@@holes like that.
2016-10-02 06:45:05 · answer #3 · answered by riesgo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is your DAUGHTERS relationship. She has to learn from her mistakes. You telling her stuff isn't gonna work mama, this will only drive her to him even more. Just let her know how you feel about it but since she wants to work it out you'll be there for her if stuff hits the fan again
2006-10-13 10:24:46 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ Army Wife ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some people have to find things out the hard way,she was told and now she should react to it or keep taking it.
2006-10-13 10:24:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you cant help caring because your daughter is important to you--still i wouldnt get involved until your daughter finds out---some couples like to play on the internet----if your daughter comes to you for help or advice thats when you help
2006-10-13 10:26:26 · answer #6 · answered by darkangel1111 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mama - Mind your own business!!
This is between your daughter and her husband - you shouldn't even know about it.
Stay out of it!!!
2006-10-13 10:23:00 · answer #7 · answered by brenny_boo 3 · 2⤊ 1⤋
if she is aware it is her choice of what to do about it
2006-10-13 10:24:58 · answer #8 · answered by phyllis_neel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh
such type person......
2006-10-13 10:24:36 · answer #9 · answered by rav 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keylogger.com
2006-10-13 10:29:10 · answer #10 · answered by kissy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋