We have known each other for sometime,but ever time we make plans to see each other at night, he bails and doesnt return calls until a day or 2 later. He acts like nothing happened too. tell me your answer. we are regular friends though.
2006-10-13 10:18:43 · 11 answers · asked by gioanni77 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
if you are friends keep it that way it sounds like he is tryin to dodge a commitment
2006-10-13 10:22:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, maybe because he can, he's not that thrilled with seeing you (to state the obvious), he doesn't care about you, he's using something that addles his brain so that he forgets.
My question back for you is why do you continue to give him an opportunity to disrespect you? We teach people how to treat us and he's been taught to mistreat you. What are you getting out of the deal?
2006-10-13 10:24:44 · answer #2 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I wouldn't do this, I guess he's too much of a coward to tell the truth. Why would you keep going back for more if he treats you like this?
2006-10-13 10:21:28 · answer #3 · answered by Ahwell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Real friends don't treat friends like that bail out on him and find you a new friend that you can trust and he will respect you and your plans.
2006-10-13 10:22:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A lot of times it's because we've lost interest or we've been to busy and forgot the situation (happens to me a lot)...not sayin it applies to everyone, but im sure it does to quite a few
2006-10-13 10:21:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy would not do this to someone that he liked. He's using you for his convenience. Trust Senor Pig on these matters.
2006-10-13 10:21:48 · answer #6 · answered by Senor Pig 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most likely because you allow it to happen. I wouldnt put up with that kind of thing from a woman and you shouldnt either....state your terms and if not met, move on.
2006-10-13 10:21:32 · answer #7 · answered by koalatcomics 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's just trying to keep you on his string,just incase! Move on girl!
2006-10-13 10:25:05 · answer #8 · answered by Johnny B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maby he doesn't like you in that way and doesn't know how to tell you.......maby he's in a relationship and his girl ruins his plans,comes over, calls him long distance.......or maby he's gay
2006-10-13 10:26:38 · answer #9 · answered by j_whitekiller 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he wants to keep the friendship a friendship--ask him about it
2006-10-13 10:20:52 · answer #10 · answered by darkangel1111 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋