Should I tell my wife that I cheated on her with her twin sister?

Question

She was gone for 2 days and you know a man needs loving and she wasn't there for me so I had to do what a man had to do.

Answer 1

It's ok to do it with the twin... She looks like your wife, right? No harm done.

Answer 2

You are disgusting and so is your wife's sister. You both make me sick. Don't you have any morals, self respect or self control. A man doesn't need loving all the time. It's all in your mind. If you even have one. You are truly simple. If you were a true man, which you are not and you never will be, the thought to cheat with you wife's sister would have never crossed you mind. Tell her if you want to and I hope she has enough sense to leave you and disown her sister. That's betrayal of the worst kind. Whatever happened to love and honor.

Answer 3

You most definitely are not a man!! A real man loves and respect his wife. How would you feel if she did it to you. If by chance there is some man in you,then you need to come clean and for that I hope she leaves your A$$ to find a real man who will love her the way you obviously can't. As for the sister, I hope your wife beats the **** out of her, so that this will never happen again.

Answer 4

Okay, let's give you the credit of assuming this is a real question, not a jerky, adolescent joke. Points for at least WONDERING what you should do about it.

Points off for DOING IT, of course - major points off.

"She was gone for 2 days and you know a man needs loving...?"

1) Please be honest with yourself, to start - you ain't talkin' about love. You're talking about sex. Figuring out what to do starts with being straight up about the topic at hand.

2) You couldn't wait 2 days? Nothing to be proud of, that lack of self control. Yikes.

3) With her sister. Urp. That's betrayal and selfishness on a cosmic scale.

4) What a man, a real, actual, mature, impressive, wow-that's-a-real man has to do is stand up, stand behind his choices, be honorable, be real. So far, your track record here is, well... I'm sure you can figure it out.

So now you've done this, you can't undo it, but you can start becoming a real man by what you do now. Do you tell her? Uh, YEAH. And you let her say anything - anything at all - that she feels like saying, and you let her choose how to respond. You also urge her to get tested for STD's, 'cause let's face it, Sister Dear has shown low standards. If she'll sleep with her sister's husband, you can bet you weren't first, or probably 21st, or 51st, so you both need to talk to a doctor and be tested, pronto.

'Cause okay, you betrayed the trust of someone who should have been able to count on you (not manly), you couldn't keep it in your pants for two days (so not manly), and you possibly exposed someone to STD's who deserves better from you (wow, so far down the "manly" scale we're in major negative numbers).

So yeah, you tell her. You... hello... APOLOGIZE - not that she'll accept it, if she's sane, but because you recognize that you have serious work to do on yourself. Then you get to a doctor and pray that what you have can be handled with shots/pills/whatever.

Then you bounce on out of your wife's life, because she deserves someone whose word means something and who has at least some rudimentary sense of honor, after making arrangements for alimony, which you will pay, because you hope one day to be a man, and that's a step on the path there.

Answer 5

2 days !!! come on man.
Would you accept the same thing from her if you were gone? I know you may not have a twin brother, but that's beside the point.
She will not forgive you if that's what you are trying to figure out.
The answer is Yes. You said earlier that you are man, then tell her and be responsible for your action like a real man.

Answer 6

dude, that's messed up.

you obviously weren't ready for marriage.. and yeah, you SHOULD tell her... coz chances are the truth is gonna come up sooner or later and it'll be best if she heard it from you and not through the grapevine...

what's the reason you married her anyway? to cheat on her with her sis? I don't think so. if yeah, then I'd say the marriage is over for you buddy!

better be honest now and tell the truth!

hah Good luck to you there!

and one more thing... you are NOT a man! u didn't HAVE TO cheat! a real man wouldn't do that to his own WIFE! have respect for the marriage... you really don't know the meaning of it! guys like you make me sick...

Answer 7

sure thats great make her feel even better. If you feel the n eed both of you should be there and then be ready to except the explosion taht is gonna happen.But think of how you just ruined there lives they are twins and a really close so you not only screwed youre wifes life up but also her relationship with her sister dumb****.

Answer 8

BULL! You didn't have to cheat! You better tell her before the twin tells her! Gone only two days and you couldn't do without sex? That's a dumb excuse! You just wanted to see if the grass was greener on the other side of the fence! JERK!

Answer 9

Wow 2 days......u couldn't wait for two simple days and don't come around blaming wifey on this because it's not her fault that she be trusting to leave you alone. Nice love you got for her but hey i'm not here to judge. Yea you should tell her its right she might even take in consideration that you had the balls to even say anything.

Answer 10

Yes you should tell your wife and you should be ashamed of yourself. If I was your wife I would divorce your A** as soon as possible you are worthless if you could do that to your wife.
Apparently you don't LOVE your wife like you say you do.