my mother-in-law moved in in may and we have been fighting ever since. my kids are also having behavioral problems in school now.
2006-10-13 10:15:20 · 6 answers · asked by emotionalyhurtmom 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Letting her move into your house in the first place was a mistake. Get her out of your house and if you can't you must have a talk with your husband about the way you feel. Why is she there? Has she no place else to go?
2006-10-13 10:21:47 · answer #1 · answered by Charm 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could you have an honest, open discussion with your husband and your mother in law? Talk it out before things get really out of hand. Maybe having her there could end up being positive. Like helping with housework, cooking, and your kids.
2006-10-13 17:23:42 · answer #2 · answered by Cathy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If your mother in law is causing this much chaos you need to either sit down with your husband and talk to him and if it doesnt work then either have her move out or separate if you have to because this sounds like its ruining your marriage and the kids are involved and if they are misbehaving like you said you need to be there for your kids and look out for their best interest.
2006-10-13 17:27:14 · answer #3 · answered by 2wild4u 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move away so she doesn't have that much influence on your kids or as much on your husband. If he's a mama's boy your going to have a hell of a time. make sure you have some kind of tangible proof, and when you tell him don't make it look like she's doing something wrong, take it very slowly and use one thing at a time. don't try to dump everything she's done on him at once....that will have him thinking your either just complaining..or jealous....your not jealous are you?
2006-10-13 17:28:13 · answer #4 · answered by flashpro 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
HEY PLEASE YOU HAVE TO TELL HER TO LEAVE... MOTHERS IN LAWS DO NOT BELONG IN OUR HOMES,WANT TO KNOW WHY?? BECAUSE THEY WANT TO RUN OUR HOMES AND THAT CANT BE......AND THE REASON YOUR KIDS ARE NOT BEHAVING IS BECAUSE THEY FEEL THE PRESSURE FROM YOU GUYS.. YEAH YOUR MOTHER IN LAW NEEDS TO GO HOME OR IN A HOME....KNOW WHAT I MEAN? GOOD LUCK. YOUR HUSBAND JUST HAVE TO UNDERSTAND THERE CANT BE TWO MRS IN THIS HOME,HE CHOSE YOU TO LIVE WITH AND THE WHOLE POINT OF LEAVING HIS HOME WAS TO BE WITH YOU AND NOW SHE LIVES WITH YOU GUYS?? NO IT CANT BE TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL.... HE HAS TO UNDERSTAND!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-13 17:49:07 · answer #5 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yah the first thing you have got to do is let your Husband, no in fact Tell your husband, its ither his mom, or the person he married a swore to love, if hes a momas boy, and does not have enough gutts to speak for himself, and tell his mother to butt out,ide consider you rethinking rather or not you have what it takes to go thru the rest of your life living under his mothers rules! i know i woudent!
2006-10-13 17:29:20 · answer #6 · answered by rpoker 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋