I like two guys. One guy is a senior who is really sweet, smart, and cute. The other guy is a freshman who is a freshman who has a girlfriend. I really like both guys but I can't amke a decision. I have fun with both of them, they both make me laugh, and they both make me get butterflies in my stomach when I think about them. I know that I have to choose one and I know that I ahve to be happy with my descision but idon't know how i would be happy when I know one of the guys is 18 and the other one has a giprlfriend. What do you think Is hould do? Please help me?
2006-10-13 09:56:24 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
Personally, I would choose the sweet, smart, cute, avaliable senior and not the taken freshman. Why? Cause I wouldn't want to deal with the drama of breaking up a perfectly good couple. Besides, the senior could take you to prom whereas the freshman can't even drive yet! LOL!!!
But anyway, I take it you're under 18 but your older than the freshman, right? Dating someone who's 18 isn't bad, but having sex w/ them under age can get U both in a lot of trouble, legal trouble. Other than that, it's fine. Dating a younger guy isn't bad either. However, dating a TAKEN guy isn't good. He already chose a girl to be with and until they break up he's off limits. (and if their relationship is going bad anyway, still wait for them to be offically broken up. You shouldn't be the reason why they break up in any case.)
Unfortunately I don't know how you would choose who you like better. If you like the senior better then you can date him now. If you like the freshman better you have to wait. OR...you can date the senior now and when he graduates date the freshman (who will be a sophomore) if you are still attracted to him.
Hope this helps!
2006-10-13 10:33:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I think sence one of them already has a girlfriend you should go for the other one. You never know, you might end up finding out who you like better. For example if you start to date the single one you might find out that he is not that great of a guy or that you don't have much in common. By that time the one with the girlfriend might of broken up with her so you can see if he's the one. Keep searching, you'll find the right guy.
2006-10-13 17:37:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well make a choose the Senior guy is going to live to college and the freshman has a girlfriend. u should choose the senior because he is mature. he knows what he want for his life and the freshman is in-mature and don't now what he wants in life.
2006-10-13 17:24:59 · answer #3 · answered by Lucy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with the first response. Why do you have to choose? just have fun and be very careful. Try not to do anything that you will regret later on. Try not to make either of them get too serious, just have safe fun.
You could also look at it this way. Would you want another girl going after your boyfriend if you were in a relationship?
2006-10-13 17:31:47 · answer #4 · answered by ME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to choose. There is nothing wrong with liking 2 guys. Just enjoy and don't sweat the issue. Enjoy life first, worry about one guy later. Monogamy in high school is not required (neither is a sexual relationship).
2006-10-13 17:05:51 · answer #5 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were you i would choose the Senior because the freshman as a girlfriend and i don't think you want problem with her. that if i were you .
2006-10-13 18:32:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well the freshman has a girlfriend, you don't want to be considered one of those girls,
2006-10-13 17:38:46 · answer #7 · answered by - 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really cant decide, you could make a pro con list about each one and whichever one has more pros, go with that one. HOPe this hleps
2006-10-13 17:07:30 · answer #8 · answered by lil_danca06 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant like 2 person at the same time.Pick one
2006-10-13 17:42:19 · answer #9 · answered by Alexandria 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋