i just can't help it.....
2006-10-13 09:31:07 · 12 answers · asked by ♥Brown Eyed Girl ♥ 5 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
i just can't stop either
*i'm 20*
2006-10-13 09:31:37 · update #1
No, there's nothing wrong with you crying on your birthday. For many significant dates often are filled with emotion, especially if there is not someone special to share the event with.
Don't worry what others say --- Crying is a way to cleanse your body --- And for you that's natural. But most importantly just be yourself: You don't owe anyone an explanation for crying. Just be yourself! :)
2006-10-13 09:36:02 · answer #1 · answered by JC 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I think some birthdays really indicate a passage from one stage of life to the next. I remember turning 20 was a tough one for me also. You're not a teenager anymore, but you're not really an adult either. To me, being 20 was like being in this age neverland for the year. I HATED being 20! I felt I was too old to act like a carefree teenager, but still too young for anyone to take me seriously. I was very relieved when I turned 21.
Not really having any details on what is going on in your life, I can just say if you feel like crying today, just have a good cry and get it out. All the same, considering the alternative, try to remember to be thankful for another year of life. And don't forget to look forward to your future. You have your whole life ahead of you.
Happy birthday! : )
2006-10-13 10:13:03 · answer #2 · answered by loveblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there is anything wrong with it. For as long as I can remember (I'm 24) I've cried on my birthday. When I was younger, it was usually during my birthday party, so my mother stopped giving them to me. As I got older, I would go through the whole day thanking people for their wishes, but at the end of the school day I'd go home and close my bedroom door and cry myself to sleep. Not really ever knowing why I was crying, but I'd just cry and cry. I still do. Even now, my partner doesn't understand why I do it even I don't understand. I'm sure if I went to a therapist about it he/she would unroot some under lying cause of it. Anyway, just to let you know, you are not the only one and you are not abnormal b/c of it :)
2006-10-13 09:50:41 · answer #3 · answered by KrisKarson 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think there's anything wrong with crying on your birthday. You don't need a reason to be crying either. I cried too when I turned twenty. I think that maybe it just has to do with no longer being a teenager and yet not really being an adult. So there's a sense of loss, and whenever you go through a loss you tend to grieve and this is ust your way of letting go of that teenage part of you. You can cry, its okay to, birthdays are hard days, especially your twentieth birthday.
2006-10-13 10:35:47 · answer #4 · answered by Aly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-16 04:08:33 · answer #5 · answered by mcfee 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all...remember the song..its my birthday and I'll cry if I want to, cry if I want to, cry if I want to, you would cry too if it happened toooo youuuuu....lmao..seriously no but why would u cry..ur only 20
2006-10-13 09:39:22 · answer #6 · answered by SIBella :) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no nothing is rong... i do it to... everything that gose rong seems so much worse on ur birthday right? its like its your day and everything needs to be perfect... isent that weird.. but there is nothing rong wit it..peace out grl scout oh and happy b day oh and im 14 but thats ok ill probubly be the same when im older 2
2006-10-13 09:38:57 · answer #7 · answered by why hello there 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is reason of crying? too happy or too emtional because you are getting old?
it is okay to cry, but you must have a reason!
2006-10-13 09:34:40 · answer #8 · answered by YourDreamDoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't think of it as getting older..think of it as getting better...just like wine......your still young..and have a long great life ahead of you....I've got boots as older as you. Cheer Up!...
2006-10-13 09:36:38 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No there is nothing wrong with it if there is a reason.
If there is no reason then you need to find out why.
:o)
Jerry
2006-10-13 10:19:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋