even though this is history?
2006-10-13 09:30:29 · 13 answers · asked by klontinmybroek 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Do you tell your partner about all your previous heterosexual relationships?
If not then why bother with this?
As long as it isn't something that will hurt your partner your past is nobody's business but yours unless you decide to share it.
2006-10-13 09:33:47 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think it depends how old you were when it happened. If you were a kid, like, under 16, and it only happened once, well a lot of kids experiment. And If you sincerely have no attraction for the same sex now then I wouldn't mention it.
Now if you were older, say 18+, or you still have occasional homosexual thoughts, I think you need to mention it.
This is assuming you've been tested HIV or other STDs and know you are clean. If you are a man who had sex with a man without protection, you should be tested before you have sex with anyone else.
2006-10-13 16:36:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not inform your partner? what for? getting married or not getting married.
Why on earth would you want to do that? I cannot understand this "come clean" attitude sometimes. Somethings are best left alone. Just leave it!! please add another part to your question to say why you would want to tell her because I don't understand.
You wasn't in a relationship with her at the time were you?
2006-10-13 16:36:18 · answer #3 · answered by Just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you have to explain your past to your partner. What is past, usually stays in the past. But if you are having the feelings again, then maybe you should.
I am not in the least interested in who my partner has slept with before as long as he doesn't have an STD now.
2006-10-13 18:08:05 · answer #4 · answered by oddbutterfly1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Would you want your partner to tell you if they had a homosexual experience?
I sure would and since I would ... I would want to know the truth.
Honest is always the best policy!! I'd tell them even if it is history.
History has a way of repeating itself.
2006-10-13 17:19:26 · answer #5 · answered by lfbrowne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah cuz there's a chance it could swing back that way. i did with a few girls and i still wonder sometimes if im bi, but some people say that we're born bisexual. i dont know if i belivee that but i hope not because i dont want my husband to be bi.
2006-10-13 16:31:50 · answer #6 · answered by Justina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it's more than 5 years, then you don't have to legally bring it up.
2006-10-13 16:32:11 · answer #7 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should always be truthful with yer partner.
2006-10-13 16:34:34 · answer #8 · answered by sebi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2006-10-13 16:33:34 · answer #9 · answered by Blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what he or she doesn't know, won't hurt them. keep that to yourself. r u guys getting married? if not, then just leave it alone
2006-10-13 16:32:22 · answer #10 · answered by wizeguy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋